An American Woman in Dubai Fights for Abused Women

by deng | March 23, 2008 at 01:46 am | 539 views | 4 comments
Source: muhajabah.com
by deng

An American by birth, Sharla Musabih argues that confrontation is essential in order to fight ingrained patriacal tradition, and points out that the Emirates needs to address human trafficking.  “When a woman has three broken bones in her back, and the police don’t take it seriously, yes, I get angry,” Ms. Musabih said.

DUBAI, United Arab Emirates — For years, Sharla Musabih has fought a lonely battle to protect battered wives and victims of human trafficking here. She founded the Emirates’ first women’s shelter here and she became a familiar figure at police stations, relentlessly hounding officers to be tougher on abusive husbands.

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Ms. Musabih with a shelter resident’s child. Her aggressiveness stands out, as does her habit of calling her charges “darlin’.”

She has also earned many enemies. Emiratis do not often take kindly to rights advocates drawing attention to the dark side of their fast-growing city-state on the Persian Gulf, better known for its gleaming office towers and artificial islands.

Still, no one was quite prepared for the stories that started appearing in Dubai newspapers this month. Suddenly, unidentified female victims were coming forward to say that “Mama Sharla” herself had abused them, forced them to work as servants and sold their stories to foreign journalists for thousands of dollars, pocketing the proceeds. She even sold one woman’s baby, the articles said, hinting at criminal investigations.

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jordan
good stuff:

deng, I like this story. It's good stuff.

gerrypopplestone

 


I'm glad you highlighted this, Deng.  The widespread  abuse that occurs daily is an outrage that all Western governments turn a blind eye to in their sucking up to oil-rich states.


 


PS:  I love your profile!

clantraveler
good stuff:


deng

Thanks guys,

On the one hand I want to see immediate change in the Arab world but that desire is tempered by the knowledge that there is a deep collective history.  The comparison for me is the progress of America, England and Europe almost spontaneously only really coming into maturity during the early 1900s and after.

I don't know about Europe, but in England and America it is very obvious to me that in parts of those countries the communal mindset has still not progressed far from the good old days of "A woman's place is in the home."  It was only in the 1960s in England, I think, that laws that made a woman the property of her husband - chattel - were struck down.  

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