Distressed brides-to-be

by michelle.sundvick | June 27, 2008 at 09:38 am
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Weddings are one of the most stressful events to plan and there exists a never-ending 'To Do' list for each of the happy couples.  They say that it's all downhill after the dress... but what happens when the bridal shop owner decides to shut down their shop only days before your wedding? Apparently the best payback is to kidnap their dogs.

A woman who closed her bridal shop suddenly, leaving brides without dresses, has gone into hiding after receiving threats.

Arvella Brides, in High Street, Lyndhurst, Hampshire, closed without warning on Tuesday leaving angry brides-to-be out of pocket.

Owner Lisa Clarkson blamed market conditions and suppliers and said she had done nothing wrong.

"I'm so sorry they [the brides] have been caught up in this mess," she said.

"None of this was intentional. Myself and my staff have tried everything possible to make sure that they are all sorted as much as we can.

"The people that have had dresses, we are still working together to try and get them dresses and I'm really, really sorry that people are in this position."

Speaking from a hotel where she has been staying, Mrs Clarkson, from Warsash, said she arrived home on Tuesday to find 10 people outside "banging the doors down".

"I'm beside myself, I'm scared," she said.

She added that her dogs had been also been kidnapped.

"I cannot understand how anybody, regardless of the emotion they were going through, would come to my home and break down the gate and take my dogs. It's prevented me carrying on and sorting out the brides."

Hampshire Police said they had not received any reports of an incident at Mrs Clarkson's home, but they were called to disperse angry couples who arrived at the shop on Tuesday to find the windows had been whitewashed.

Mrs Clarkson, 33, said: "There are a number of reasons why it's happened. The way the market is at the moment, we tried desperately within the shop to not be in this position.

"Unfortunately with certain suppliers and support that I thought I had that I don't have - in general it's just the way the market is at the moment.

"There were particular problems, staffing problems."

But she denied there were warning signs and insisted that she had not taken money knowing orders could not be honoured.

"Like any business you don't go out of your way to put these brides in this position, where they are left with nothing.

"The way everything is, you keep going and trying to make things better. I tried desperately to do that.

"I did not take any orders from a bride and not order the dress, it was not like that at all."

But that has been contradicted by a number of customers who have contacted the BBC.

Ian Taylor, from London, said his sister Helen ordered a dress at the shop last year.

"When we found out we contacted the designer who said they had not received the order - yet the shop took the payment in full," he said.

"She's due to get married in five weeks and is left without any money or a dress."

A report on the Companies House website shows that the business failed to present its accounts when they were due in January.

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Yuliya Talmazan
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at 09:43 on June 27th, 2008

michelle.sundvick, I like this story. It's good stuff. Like the story.

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Abbdar

This is a photo of my sister-in-law and her mother. Though the article is about distressed brides, this particular one had a happy wedding day--dress and all!

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Esteid

My wife wanted me to mention that she was very happy with where she got her dress, even though the shop did, infact, close while she was in the process of buying it. but the owners communication was fantastic and i was very pleased.

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TurnoftheSue

Bride's dressing room at East Fork Country Estate in Damascus, OR.

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jennifer buehrer
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at 14:06 on June 27th, 2008

michelle.sundvick, Interesting

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Heiky

I feel really bad for the brides.

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ScuttersRule

This is an outdated Wedding Gown from the local second hand shop that will be redesigned into a new dress. The "Before" picture.  To see more pictures of my process, find ScuttersRule on Flickr.

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Y A S M I N

I loved this dress. But can't find it at the store which is quite irritating.

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chase.willsey

Weddings can be stressful... but they do not have to be. My wife and I spent more time on our marriage and less on the wedding itself. I think that if more people did the same, we would not have such a problem with divorce. I feel awful for the brides, and hate that extra stress has been added. Hopefully they all realize what is most important is having a healthy marriage and not a perfect wedding! God bless.

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John Kirchhofer photos

My wife is a bride stlylist. I am a amateur photograf for more than 30 years. From the last two years I have decide to construct a catalog from my wife jobs. The result is 50.000 picture of wedding and brides.

This picture is one of them.

Today, as many brides and his mothers like too much of my pictures, I have contrating to photograf wedding as a "second and free photograph eye". I delivery a creative digital album as a really diferente an artistic photograf album of the bride and his wedding.

John Kirchhofer
55+21+3322-0942
john.kirchhofer@gmail.com

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