Enticement of the distant place

Often, we see a lot of people, write down that kind of grieved painful characters, I know, there is town of fans in emotion and desire of a woman or man, " fail in love "  ,get lost.
Perhaps, you will say, she is understanding, attractive, he is cultured and pretty, show consideration for gently, have touched your most gentle corner in the heart. It like you to him row the firm,would rather solidify time, so long a lonely night, so beautiful, because he stores in, the world is so beautiful, spends more fragrant, the wind is more gentle, all time is beautiful because of missing and waiting for. But, dear friend, do you understand that person behind remote distance?
You can become his girl bosom friend, he becomes your blue face, space on because it is remote in kind from existence,kinds of dim and distance beauty that distance produce, because the distant place is a kind of hope, one is quiet, a kind of reverie, the distant place is a kind of enticement even more, including the desire, agony and love. There is no scenery in the familiar place, not because the scenery is not graceful, but familiar with very much. Our state of mind wanders up and down in the spaciousness of the distant place, the yoke confines our soul, then, the desire and luring the body controlling us.
The external world is always very excellent, the enticement of the foreign lands is always very satisfied, exactly like the stars of the bit at a distance, with the person that the conditions and customs enticement blinking survived in this world; Enticement of foreign lands always very pleasant, seem the twittering of night, take lovesickness, let the soul that can't sleep soundly be dissociated during that time; The enticement of the foreign lands makes people crazy, the seemingly careless one waves, but unable to prevent the step yearned for really.
The distance is produced beautifully, not because the distance can mould beauty, but because to pursuing, vast and hazy and unable to touch unknownly, yearning for making people keep wanting to press close to. The enticement people heart to unknown field or world '  People or thing)  Want by hope of telling sue for peace one that perceive,one day can reach to the hope, then this kind of yearning will be existing all the time, no matter you have been got by the consciousness, this kind of yearning will been still taking root in your blood all the time, will stay and stay. People lure always, lure on outstanding, but lured in unknown world.
Because there is remote distance of space, you who are remote are so unique, Wen Wan, romantic, conditions and customs, thousands of of distance gentle so to show consideration for in he perhaps, emotion cultured to make while being light fine and smooth, or male genital of man courageous and resolute just, in fact, that only you or a spiritual aspect of him, with the ordinary housewife as one at ordinary times, or your job image, the wife's images are totally different, because of the disparity of the region, and he himself's wife at ordinary times is different too, the daily serious image with him, it is different to be reserved.
Man need, worship, woman need praise, and person of marriage think enclosure to stock the marriage usually, enter the safe, no longer pay attention to decorating one's own appearance, does not pay attention to improving one's own grade again, and appropriate distance, happen to offer such a platform. There is an article I have already forgotten it, has just remembered a word among them, "my dear, I do not love you, but because love your present position. "
His wife, perhaps beautiful and charming, perhaps show consideration for gently, it is not intrepid perhaps, perhaps it is a woman of exceptional talent and ability on an undertaking, perhaps it is very good with his emotion in fact, only because of the passage of time, it is aesthetic and tired to just produce the temporary one. And that one of yours, it is enough for the conditions and customs that maybe short-tempered, maybe not, it is even very selfish and narrow perhaps, perhaps there are this or that shortcomings, but perhaps your purpose appears to regard for oneself, just because the distance is too near, you can not see the simple feeling under dull life.
Your happy time together, is nothing but in his successful time flushed with success, when his sight is tired, that scenery not seen outside window seen once in a while, it is one that fluctuates floating of sky of his soul the cloud has flowed; Nothing but the afternoon tea for a cup Valentine's Day of the desk of his job, the bright-colored rose petal floats, sweet perfumes are diffused all around, only a romantic serenade after coming back of his dinner party, lyrical and elegant.
At the night when those secret fragrance is floating, the dusk is so dim, that " moonlight song ", " Lina Di of A by water ", that love which subdues the soul longs for women fragrantly, those lyrical romantic poems, just the tool of a relaxed mood of his, know? The emotion expression that you needn't take it seriously, regard as his affectionate pouring out and explanation, regard three paction forever to grow stone as even, think his marriage really had no medicine to rescue, needn't think still more oneself was the only bosom friend with eternal his inner world, you know, show consideration for cultured pretty undertaking man while being outstanding a bit, outstanding moving woman, it is people's gaze focus at all times, you are not eternal and only him, he is not eternal and only you.
Mutual distance too near to lose dim beauty, love selfish, the marriage means being tolerant; The love is heavy, but the marriage is relaxed; The love means the tears, the agony and torment missed, but what the marriage brought to you is a stretch of warm sunshine; The love can not be gorgeously eternal, in full bloom but disappear fast; The love, like the raging fire, is a cup of spirits, make the person crazy, but the true marriage is a cup of forever fragrant and pleasant green tea, it is a gust of fresh breeze in summer, it is a basin of warm carbon fire in winter.
The blending and perceiving of soul, need the distance. Uncertain too sometimes that is liked and understood. Then like, then understand, because it is strange to understand instead very much. Because body and body is the remote,it have heart closeness with heart just. In the journey in the life, it was tempestuous that we once sighed over ocean with feeling, high mountain is dangerously steep, plain is broad and level, the rough shock of the sand blown by the wind of the desert, misty rain in the South is touching, but might not like the violent storm in the ocean, the walking precipitously and difficultly of the mountain path, that kind of season of plum rains is moist. The Book of Songs is called: Jian Jia is grey, is a frost in White Dew, there is a beautiful woman, in one party of water. She ringlike jade worn as a pendant at the waist ding-dong, clothing Ju floating in the air, fill mysterious, sad and luring because of being remote.
The feeling, it is not clear to first try dim two. How to know? Lonely and dark and raw. Fragrant, light light You window completely with the wind. There is secret fragrance, the low and low one bursts forth at the night, its enchanting posture is appreciated. A watchtower on either side of a palace gate of old words of the poet's have not been dried yet, the dusk in front of the window has already been blocked. The wine mark is still here, tea is fragrant and just the same as before, the misted moonlight twines on the rattan. Under the dim moonlight, his every expression in one's eyes with overflowing glistening light of waves, every sentence of touching lover's prattle is so pleasant, her every expression is exceedingly fascinating and charming.
Some people and some things, for missing. During the journey, as high as the hills and as long as the rivers in life, the one once so beautiful is met by chance, is not must be a mistake beautiful, person that lead along by hand may not hand in hand, move and it becomes excited to be only because of a word sometimes perhaps either, a song, an expression in one's eyes, pass by, perhaps must not stay. Appreciate each other, look at from far away, enough, there needn't be too much. People are in the towns and villages all over the country, the feeling is in the towns and villages all over the country. Silence in the twinkling of an eye is the flower splitting for the first time, and a kind of shielding at the night in full bloom, isolating and losing all the things has oneself left, no matter happy or unhappy, all one's own having nothing to do with others.
Every remote place, have one enticement to all of us, lure on beautiful, lure it in the legend. Even the scenery in the distant place is not fully up to expectations, we do not need to mind either, because this is really a pleasant fault. Then, let us look at from far away, perhaps it is a definitely beautiful scenery   

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