Men are daft at picking up body language

by Rob Peters | April 3, 2008 at 02:25 pm | 867 views | 9 comments

This is why guys slap each other's butts?

New research to be published in the April issue of Psychological Science suggests university-aged men are more likely than their female peers to confuse friendly signals with sexual ones, and sexual ones with friendly ones.

In a Yale University and Indiana University study of 280 heterosexual, university-aged men and women, subjects were asked to arrange 280 photos of fully clothed women into four categories: friendly, sexually interested, sad or rejecting.

Men who viewed images of friendly women mistakenly labelled 12 per cent of those images as sexually interested. Women got it wrong 8.7 per cent of the time.

But both men and women fared even worse at realizing when women were sexually interested. Men mistakenly interpreted 37.8 per cent of the "sexually interested" images as "friendly," while women mislabeled about 32 per cent of those images.

So why are guys seemingly more clueless than women? Psychologists have a few hunches.

One popular theory is that young men tend to oversexualize their environment. Jordyn Marcellus, a 20-year-old University of Calgary student, agrees: "Guys tend to think, 'Oh, she's being friendly - that means she's interested,' when really maybe she's just a friendly girl."

Another theory - and the one Ms. Ferris says her research supports - suggests that women have the advantage when it comes to interpreting facial expressions and body language for a variety of emotions. Men are simply a little less adept at reading non-verbal cues such as body language and batted eyelashes.

Antonia Abbey, professor of psychology at Wayne State University in Detroit, adds that socialization may play a role too.

Because men are generally expected to make the first move, they may be more prone to taking risks on the off chance a girl is interested, even if he is not sure.

"They have to be a bit bold," said Dr. Abbey, who began studying these types of gender dynamics as a graduate student in the early 1980s, after a guy at a bar kept pestering her despite her insistence that she only wanted a dance - not a relationship.

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amyjudd
good stuff:

Rob Peters, I like this story, although I've never seen any of you guys in the office slap each other butts!

TheeErin

This is just junk science.

politisite

I never had a clue when it came to me.  For others, I pick up everything

Karen Hatter
good stuff:

Rob, I like this story. Although, this seems to indicate that these guys are near kindred spirits to the guys at Delta House in Animal House! I think more research is definitely needed. 

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nikolajnewyork

I (she) make fun by making a frightened face.

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azzayindia
good stuff:

Rob Peters, I like this story. It's good stuff.

the brain of men is filled with sex maybe that is the reason

nicholasviltrakis

"Talk is cheap, but teeth speak volumes."
She wanted to see what ugly would look like.
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Peter ●●initram5●

He is a friend of mine. :)

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April 3, 2008 at 02:25 pm by Rob Peters, 867 views, 9 comments

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