Michael Jackson's Secret Girlfriend, Fact Verses Fiction

by Tina Kells | July 2, 2009 at 05:59 pm
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Michael Jackson died one week ago and already his reputation has been hit with a barrage of allegations. From secret wives and secret girlfriends, to questions of the true paternity of his children, fans are left wondering when the madness will end, and just what is fact verses fiction?

The latest allegations have been made by one of Michael Jackson's former bodyguards who claims that Jackson had a secret girlfriend who had been in the star's life in "a variety of capacities."  Could the secret girlfriend and the secret wife be one in the same?

Nona Paris Lola Ankhesenamun Jackson has claimed that she is Michael Jackson's secret wife and the real mother of his children.  She has been making these claims since before Michael Jackson died.  Could they be true? Could she be the secret girlfriend that Jackson's former bodyguard mentions? Could Jackson have made her his secret wife?

The rumors surrounding Michael Jackson's mysterious life will persist as will conspiracy theories about his equally mysterious death.  Just what is fact and what is fiction may never really be known.

"I'm not going to name who she is, but I think the family were aware that there was someone special in his life who he loved and adored and had his ups and downs with," Fiddes said.

"I don't know how long they've been a couple. I know she's been with him for some time in different capacities but ... it's up to her if she wants it to come out or the family to speak about this very private information."

Fiddes also revealed that Jackson was being given drugs by swindling doctors who routinely charged fans $20,000 to meet Jackson. Fiddes said he and Jackson's friend Uri Geller tried to throw away needles and keep him away from the doctors, but their efforts were in vain.

"I never witnessed him actually taking drugs but I knew they were there and I confiscated packages, and Uri did too," Fiddes said."And Uri confiscated injection equipment from his room...Uri would scream at Michael, you know, intensely, to stop doing this but we were getting pushed out...The doctor had such an influence over Michael that we felt our efforts were falling on deaf ears."

Update: July 7, 2009

Reports now claim that long time Jackson employee Grace Rwaramba may be the King of Pop's secret wife. 

Grace Rwaramba the Rwandese woman who worked for Michael Jackson for the last 17 years has been described by many as Michael Jackson's secret wife. She was the nanny for Michael Jackson's 3 children; Prince Michael, 12, Paris Katherine, 11 and six-year-old Prince Michael II.   The children who referred to  Rwaramba as "mom" did not have a 'real' mother, just like Michael Jackson liked it. Debbie Rowe who gave birth to two of  the kids was not present in their lives while growing up. Katherine Jackson, the 'grandmother' who is likely to take the children was also not present in their lives, except for a few visits to the kids.
This only leaves one person who can legitimately be declared as the mother: Grace Rwaramba. She has always been present in their lives and as a result, she has formed a bond with the children as a 'real' mother would with her children. it seems that  the bond will be cut off because the kids will not be under her responsibility anymore. Many in Michael Jackson's entourage believed that Grace Rwaramba was the King of Pop's  secret wife.  Putting the legal wrangles aside, Rwaramba should be given custody of the children because this will be an advantage to the kids who deserve a 'normal' upbringing.

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S.SAMY

 

FOR HEAVEN'S SAKE LET THE MAN'S SOUL REST IN PEACE

 

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Zara Ghoat

Oh God - its all coming out now. But the fans will just dismiss it as lies against poor innocent Michael, the self deluding fools..

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Maurice Flay

His reputation is in tatters - not that he had much of one beyond the age of 10.

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Tony Blair, UK

"HE WAS THE PEOPLE'S PAEDOPHILE"

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Sami707

U should know...u were obnviously there

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Shair

Micheal Jackson won't get to complettly Rest In Peace, until all the Memorials they are planning for him are done, and they finaly come out and tell everyone he died of a Drug Induced Coma or a Drug Over Dose.  It's very sad that he can't get his sleep even in Death.

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FarrahFan23

To Geller and FiddesWHICH doctor(s)?  Now is your chance to come forward and say who the creeps were who were DOING this to Michael. 

What're you going to do?  Shield them so they can do this to OTHER people?  Come on!  Who ARE they!!

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saffron

The headline reads "Fact vs Fiction".  This does nothing to prove any facts and just reinforces possible fiction.

FACTS!  Not quotes from a FORMER bodyguard just looking for his 15 minutes because someone from the media will actually print this.

 

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boxcarmom

His true fans wish nothing but good and peace for those he loved and cherished.

His quirks are no ones business but his.  None of us will ever know the 'true' man/child

since getting inside his head is impossible.  The fact is, he was admired and appreciated by

many millions.  He was hated and taken advantage of by others.  Super stars know the

trials and the blessings of being who they are.. none of us who've not lived it can never know.

Im a fan.  I admire his talent and do not think of him as a god.  He was a gifted human with

hardships like every human.  People will celebrate his life how they choose.  The money grabbers will continue to exploit.  It's life.

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Simon B

Michael was gay - why would he have secret girlfriends? He had to artifically inseminate his wife so what would be the point?

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MichaelFan_crc

You are ridiculously stupid. MICHAEL IS NOT GAY. maybe you are. He is the best thing to happen to pop music and his spirit lives on forever. you need to go find something worthwhile to do with your life so you can become somebody rather than act like an idiot. dont hate Michael for his accomplishments he had to work extremely hard for all he had.

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ReadABook

And you know this for a fact because........ he sent you secret mind messages through your alarm clock?  Geesh you jump on it like it would be the end of the world if he was. Poor guy wasn't able to decide what he was , it seems. And why would him being gay make you think anyone was denying his accomplishments. Methinks we have a homophobe in our midst. Hey Freddie Mercury rocked my world.... only effect that the news of him being gay had was busting my bubble of ever becoming his groupie lol.

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Aran Roberts

Maybe he was bisexual? i don't know but that would explain his secret wives. However i don't think the evidence for any interest in adults or women is particularly strong.

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Liz C

I also agree with you if he wasn't gay why wouldn't he have kids the normal way and have his wife artifically inseminated.

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The Devil

Maybe his kids are designer kids, you know he wanted his kids to look a certain way and maybe paid some doctors to try to make that happen. Or maybe he wanted the joy or fatherhood without the drama that comes with baby mommas. lol. Either way its pretty ridiculous to keep trying to brew scandal. I think the child molestation charges are bs and the fact hundreds of other victims haven't come forward says something about that. When SPM was charged with a similar crime kids came outta the woodwork with claims of abuse.

He was a great entertainer.

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ptr:u

Michael had his penis removed as he revealed in court in 2005

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TARRA

He was NOT GAY!! jus bc he didnt want 2 f*ck evry chick and was shy and actually a gentleman didnt mean he was gay!!! he had 2 wives and Lisa Marie said he was f*ckin her brains out all da time! he had many gf in his lifetime......he was way 2 sexual on stage and in the songs he was singin about WOMEN 2 b gay! yall shud do sum research b4 u judge ppl and make claims that r not true...

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eastvanray

If by "NOT GAY" you mean he preferred the company of young BOYS?  Then I agree!

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lalith olagama

PLEASE LET HIM LOOSE NOW HE IS DEAD.HAVE SOME RESPECT TO A LEGEND.

 

MICHAEL JACKSON IS KING OF POP.THE WORLD WILL NEVER HAVE ANOTHER MICHAEL AGAIN  FOR EVER

 

GOD BLESS HIS SOUL 

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scarlett

I so agree, well said.

He was a remarkedly gifted man. I believe he was as tortured as he was gifted. Which is what we will continue to hear and read about. What this one gifted man did was to change how we as people listen to music. We are now able to come together and listen and admire people of all colors and nationalities in regards to music. My hope is we can all come together in all regards. I believe that was part of his beliefs also. All of his "different actions" were in direct response to the physical and psychological abuse from his father. From the shame and humiliation at the hands of his father. The talent and the gift were natural. He was born this way. I watch his videos and am awestruck at the giftedness in dance and song. He was amazing. Let us all let him go in peace and stop taking from him even in death. I say REST IN PEACE MICHAEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!GO WITH GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I pray his children will be taken care of now in a nutruing and loving enviroment. I hope they will be given the tools to be able to grieve the loss of their dad. I hope they can be raised in a home of love and respect not one of greed and selfishness. Take Note Joe Jackson we all see you for who you really are...leave the kids and his estate alone. You have done nothing to deserve anything of Michaels. I watched you at the BET awards.........you are disgusting. You should no grief for the loss of your son....just your oppotunistic greed.......I saw the dolloar signs in your eyes. Go back to your rock and crawls back underit. Or you could go to work and pay  your bills...............and stop living off of your childrens talent.

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Zina

Very well said!!! Joe Jackson is something that lives under a rock and comes out when it is only beneficial for him and him only!!!! I hope he will have enough self respect  to leave Michael's will alone and not contest anything in it and let Michal's kids have a better life than what he provided for Michael.!!!

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kitty09

People have way to much to say about this beautiful man. Leave him alone and let him rest in peace.  Even dead there is all kinds of shit on the net, how pitiful.  As far as Joe Jackson, I'm not fond of him myself and think he'd sell his grandchildren out in a minute for a dollar but I know Michael did have forgiveness in his heart, so just let it be.  As far as his personal life, it's none of anybody's business.

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eastvanray

Get real.  He was a pedophile douchebag.  Google "Jesus juice" if you have any doubts.

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KESTO SAJENI

To the vultures of this world , can"t you just leave a good man to rest in peace.He worked tirelessly for his monies and fortunes, give him some space. You now want to reap where you did not sow.You are disgusting to say the least.

Istead we should all be celebrating his talents and life. Michael was a genius of our times. He was a unifying force amidst us.He crossed the color barrier through his music.His music will stand the test of time.

I say to Micheal GO WELL .......THE WORLD SAW WHAT YOU DID AND APPRECIATE IT.REST IN PEACE.

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Black power

He crossed the color barrier - in a negative way by rejecting his ethnicity. He is no role model for black kids who should be proud of their heritage. Black to white is no way to go. Hair straightening - OK, nose, lip jobs & the skin bleaching unforgivalble man!

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TARRABOO

Michael has said millions of times he was proud & honored 2 b black! he has vitiligo! what part of that dnt yall understand!? Y CANT BLEACH UR SKIN!!!!! he had 2 use depigmintation cream 2 even out the white spots...there r pic of this if u wud do sum research.....so sad how sum of us as a black community r so quick 2 turn on each other when 1 reaches unmatchable levels of success...insted of hating..b proud of eachother! next ppl will have sum shit 2 say bout Obama....it never ends...lots of black ppl get their nose done if they think its 2 big...his father made him think it was ugly so what do u expect?! he didnt change his lips..they thinned a lil with age....he may have went 2 far with all the work on his nose but, its his 2 do as he pleases & has nuthin 2 do with us. if he dint make the changes yall wud b sayin he look f*cked up with his skin so pale and a big ass nose etc.....

He was beautiful inside and out b4 & after his disease

R.I.P MICHAEL JOSEPH JACKSON!!! U R A LEDGEND AND UR TRUE FANS LUV U ALWAYS! WE GOT UR BACK BABY!

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eastvanray

According to one of his BEST FRIENDS, Quincy Jones, when asked about that exact subject, replied, "It's ridiculous, man! Chemical peels and all of it. And I don't understand it. But he obviously didn't want to be black."

I guess you will claim to know MJ better than QJ.  LOL!

http://www.spike.com/blog/quincy-jones-says/83185

MJ fans are so self-deluded!


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simba

Quincy Jones was upset when Michael outgrew him and used other producers.    It's safe to say he wasn't that good of a friend if he could trash Michael before his body was in the ground.  Quincy's one to talk - he's been married several times,  always to white women.  And his kids are lighter than Paris,  Michael Jr,   and Blanket - check out a picture of actress Rashida Jones,  and tell us how "black" she looks to you.  Quincy wishes he had vitiligo.

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leila abdel karim

may his soul rest in peace. Stars come and go and so will we.

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Lost without MJ

I hope he had a secret girlfriend who loved and cherished him as I which  I could have.  Just the thought that he might not have had a special someone in his life to love him unconditionally broke my heart.

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