Michael Jackson's Secret Girlfriend, Fact Verses Fiction

by Tina Kells | July 2, 2009 at 05:59 pm
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Michael Jackson died one week ago and already his reputation has been hit with a barrage of allegations. From secret wives and secret girlfriends, to questions of the true paternity of his children, fans are left wondering when the madness will end, and just what is fact verses fiction?

The latest allegations have been made by one of Michael Jackson's former bodyguards who claims that Jackson had a secret girlfriend who had been in the star's life in "a variety of capacities."  Could the secret girlfriend and the secret wife be one in the same?

Nona Paris Lola Ankhesenamun Jackson has claimed that she is Michael Jackson's secret wife and the real mother of his children.  She has been making these claims since before Michael Jackson died.  Could they be true? Could she be the secret girlfriend that Jackson's former bodyguard mentions? Could Jackson have made her his secret wife?

The rumors surrounding Michael Jackson's mysterious life will persist as will conspiracy theories about his equally mysterious death.  Just what is fact and what is fiction may never really be known.

"I'm not going to name who she is, but I think the family were aware that there was someone special in his life who he loved and adored and had his ups and downs with," Fiddes said.

"I don't know how long they've been a couple. I know she's been with him for some time in different capacities but ... it's up to her if she wants it to come out or the family to speak about this very private information."

Fiddes also revealed that Jackson was being given drugs by swindling doctors who routinely charged fans $20,000 to meet Jackson. Fiddes said he and Jackson's friend Uri Geller tried to throw away needles and keep him away from the doctors, but their efforts were in vain.

"I never witnessed him actually taking drugs but I knew they were there and I confiscated packages, and Uri did too," Fiddes said."And Uri confiscated injection equipment from his room...Uri would scream at Michael, you know, intensely, to stop doing this but we were getting pushed out...The doctor had such an influence over Michael that we felt our efforts were falling on deaf ears."

Update: July 7, 2009

Reports now claim that long time Jackson employee Grace Rwaramba may be the King of Pop's secret wife. 

Grace Rwaramba the Rwandese woman who worked for Michael Jackson for the last 17 years has been described by many as Michael Jackson's secret wife. She was the nanny for Michael Jackson's 3 children; Prince Michael, 12, Paris Katherine, 11 and six-year-old Prince Michael II.   The children who referred to  Rwaramba as "mom" did not have a 'real' mother, just like Michael Jackson liked it. Debbie Rowe who gave birth to two of  the kids was not present in their lives while growing up. Katherine Jackson, the 'grandmother' who is likely to take the children was also not present in their lives, except for a few visits to the kids.
This only leaves one person who can legitimately be declared as the mother: Grace Rwaramba. She has always been present in their lives and as a result, she has formed a bond with the children as a 'real' mother would with her children. it seems that  the bond will be cut off because the kids will not be under her responsibility anymore. Many in Michael Jackson's entourage believed that Grace Rwaramba was the King of Pop's  secret wife.  Putting the legal wrangles aside, Rwaramba should be given custody of the children because this will be an advantage to the kids who deserve a 'normal' upbringing.

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mj fan

 

Well done I HOPE so much he had someone special who gave their heart totally to him. Would comfort all his adoring fans (millions of us) to know he got something back for all he gave.

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who'ssuprised

I thought it was going to be someone like Diana Ross and she had had a penis transplant? Is it true Michael had a sex change operation performed?

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eastvanray

This pedophile douchebag does not deserve peace.  Burn MJ burn!

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Dollie

I think its a shame that people talk about Micheal this way may you also burn too!

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eastvanray

I think not.  I am not the child molestor.  MJ was.  If you choose not to accept what is obvious to those of us who are objective then you only mock yourself.

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pattylyn

you need Jesus

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eastvanray

I need Jesus because MJ is a scumbag pedophile?  Wow, are you ever misguided!

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Dessirey

You are an idiot with no brain, best thing you could do is shut up.

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I Love MJ

Are you God? Do you have the right to judge without the eyes of a hawk?  I wouldn't be talking if I were you. You think you know everything! but you don't! You fell under the preys of the media. MJ is not a child molester...he loved his kids dearly. You are just jealous because no one would love you as much as we love Michael Jackson. I see the best in him. And for him to act this way reflects on how he lost his opportunities of being a normal child. I sense the good in him! Just like how people ridiculed Jesus...people like you treat MJ the same! I hope you PRAY sometime in your life, and maybe you'll achieve this sense of "love for humanity" Rest in peace Michael Jackson. We love you very much!

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eastvanray

You must be drinking the Jesus Juice!  LOL!

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misdfds

First of all how do you konw that he was a child molester were you ever there no so have a little respect for this man and his family b/c his family is still in mourning

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MICHAEL.JACKSON.FOREVER.GOD.REST.HIS.SOULXXXX

OMG SERIUOSLY, it makes me laugh and feel sorry 4 u but mostly laugh (u complet fool and utter idiot, f***ing asshole)!! U r one of the most absent-minded sheep/followers that believes everything you read or the media tells you. If you had an ounce of intelligence in that head of yours, you wold know that all the allegations Michael Jackson faced were purely that and had no truth to them at all. Instead of finding out for yourself, you choose to blindly follow others who joined the band wagon in bashing MJ.....he was found NOT GUILTY IN A COURT OF LAW, NO CHARGES WERE BROUGHT AGAINST HIM WHATSOEVER!! HE WAS NOT A PEADOPHILE, FOR GOODNESS SAKE....WHY WOULD THEY LET HIM KEEP HIS CHILDREN OTHERWISE?!! THE FIRST SET OF ALLEGATIONS, WERE CLEARLY SET OUT TO DESTROY HIS GOOD NAME AND TO GET AS MUCH MONEY FROM HIM AS POSSIBLE....HE WAS HANDS DOWN, UNANIMOUSLY ADVISED TO SETTLE THE CASE OUT OF COURT AS THE CASE COULD HAVE GONE ON FOR YEARS...MICHAEL JACKSON AND HIS ADVISORS WANTED THIS TO END AND SO IT WAS SETTLED OUT OF COURT....MJ HAD HAD ENOUGH AND HE NEEDED TO GET ON WITH HIS LIFE. ALSO, THERE WAS NO GUARANTEE THAT JUSTICE WOULD PREVAIL, HE DID NOT WANT TO BE WRONGLY CHARGED FOR SOMETHING HE NEVER DID...POOR MICHAEL. HE DID NOT WANT TO SUFFER A MISCARRIAGE OF JUSTICE. WHO COULD BLAME HIM, IF YOU WERE IN THAT SITUATION AND YOU COULD GET OUT OF IT BY SETTLING OUT OF COURT...YOU WOULD DO THE SAME. HE DID NOT NEED TO CLEAR HIS NAME, FOR HIS NAME WAS ALREADY CLEAR...HE WAS INNOCENT AND HE HAD TO MOVE ON WITH HIS LIFE......HE MADE A PUBLIC STATEMENT PROCLAIMING HIS INNOCENCE...HE WAS AND WHATEVER HAPPENED TO INNOCENT PROVED GUILTY...HE WAS NEVER, I REPEAT NEVER PROVED GUILTY. OUT OF THE THOUSANDS OF KIDS HE HELPED AND THAT CAME TO NEVERLAND, ONLY 2 EVER COMPLAINED OF SUCH VILE ACTS, BOTH WERE CLEARLY FORCED BY THEIR PARENTS IN ORDER TO SEK LARGE  CASH SETTLEMENTS...GREEDY AND DISGUSTING LEECHES OUT TO GET MJ'S MONEY!!! HOW DARE THEY! ALL I HOPE NOW, AND THE RESTO F THE WORLD TOO, IS THAT MICHAEL JACKSON CAN REST IN PEACE. MY THOUGHT GO OUT TO HIS FAMILY. THE HATERS WILL ALWAYS HATE, BUT THEY ARE IGNORANT FOOLS. THE ONLY JUDGE, IS GOD HIMSELF....NO ONE ELSE. R.IP MJJ. YOUR MUSIC AND DANCE WILL LIVE ON FOREVER, YOUR LEGEND WILL LIVE ON FOREVER. YOUR STAR WILL NEVER FADE. TRULY THE GREATEST MAN/ENTERTAINER TO HAVE GRACED THIS EARTH WITH HIS GOD GIVEN TALENTS. A TRUE HUMANITARIAN. THE MEDIA FAILED TO PUBLICISE THIS, THEY ONLY WANTED TO DRAG YOUR NAME THROUGHT THE DIRT SO THEY COULD MAKE A QUICK BUCK. TRU MJ FANS THE WORLD OVER, WILL NEVER FORGET YOU AND WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER.XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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diann

He was just strange any way you look at him or events in his life.  He had issues with his gender, race \ so nothing surprises me bout his behavior.  For example, he wanted to look more feminine, issues with gender, he wanted his skin to be whiter - issues with racial identity and doctors primarily will prescribe anything if they are paid, I know people in the medical field and doctors are just legal pushers

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snl

You got that right, some Drs. even use it themselves but everyone is quick to hide or turn their heads to them.  Just because of their title.

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evilbetty

wow.... eastvanray - hate much?  were you there?  were you one of the alleged victims?  that's really nice, good to see you can throw stones at a dead man who you didn't even know.  to say someone doesn't deserve peace shows what kind of inhuman monster you are.  Does calling him names and talking trash about him make you feel better about yourself?  I can only imagine how sick or sad your personal life is to be so hateful to someone, even after they are dead - or am I wrong entirely and you are PERFECT

'let he who is WITHOUT SIN cast the first stone'.  for a society built so high and mighty on christianity and their values they sure do forget their own rules an awful lot... I guess it's only applicable when you are the one the stones are being flung at, right?

here's a fact - the man was loving and generous.  after his burn on the pepsi commercial, he donated his settlement money to a burn hospital.  sure, he didn't need it but he was entitled to it.  here's another one, he worked tirelessly to help children find donors for organ transplants, he donated plenty of money and spent a great deal of his personal time at hospitals visiting people.  he wanted this to be a better place for everyone.  think of that next time you turn your nose up when someone asks you to give your time or money to help others as you sit at your computer and continue with your hate mongering. 

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Rant against stupid fans

What is all this rubbish about "first stones" and "were you there". Of course you don't need to have known the man to know about him. If that was true we would abandon learning about any historical figures as we didn't actually know thema and weren't there. As for "being without sin" (apart from the fact there is no such thing as sin) this just seems like you trying to stop people saying things you would rather not hear. Try seeing if that phrase works in court when accusations are made. Do you really think people are going to think, oh dear I've sinned I better not ever say anything bad about anyone in the whole of history. i don't know why you bother posting such ill thought through posts - unless you are looking for abuse. Your post certainly does not paint the fans of Michael in a good light - however I'm sure some of them are intelligent and open minded people, unlike you. The posts about Michael's sordid life are not hate mongering. I've never hated him, just his actions - there is a difference.

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Paul Berkley

Great stuff! It won't stop the idiots though.

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eastvanray

I guess you equate sodomy with love.  If that is the case then I hope you are the most loved person on this board.  LOL!

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Mom in Upland

Whew! Where to even start???

If the information was so important that this bodyguard let out...why did it emerge AFTER Michael's death so that he is not here to confirm or deny the allegations????

The same thing with his dangerous drug abuse....all this "I tried to stop him!" is a little late...don't you think??? To me, it sounds like a bunch of heavy hearted souls trying to clear their own conscious by convincing themselves and anyone else that they TRIED to help Michael...but, he was just too far gone...and them condoning his drug use by allowing it was in no way any fault of theirs anymore than the fault of his death.

I don't know what Michael's personal life was as an adult...but, I hear all these things about him, and I wonder how these people would feel if Michael was their son??? Their brother??? Their husband/boyfriend/significant other/(even bootycall fits right here)??? Their father???

He was someone who loved and was loved...he was talented, and gave all he could...let his family remember him that way, and keep all the ugly things...rumors and facts...locked away while they say goodbye and learn to live without him.

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pooper

he was married in saudi arabia to allama

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Izzy girl

BS!!!!

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Arapu Kawuse

Michael lives forever for as long as this generation continues to chat about him.

PREDICTION:  Michael Jackson will re-incarnate in the year 2058.

Whoever doubts this, please try to be around to see for yourself. And keep a copy of this mail as evidence of this prediction please.

He will this time come to claim his rightful place and to sing the songs he once sang in his past life. To those who are now ridiculing him, rest assured, you will get your portion of vengeance at that time should you still be alive.

These are not lies but predictions that will will surely happen.

I remain,

ARAPU KAWUSE (Born 1st, Jan. 1980, to keep divulging predicted information about people whose names are the most pronounced verbally in this world.) Next we shall have a hint on Vladmir Putin, Bill Clinton, Ahmadinejad, Elizabeth Queen of England, Rupert Murdoch and many more...

** ** ** ** **

Can't divulge all details of the origin of this message.

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Boris Gretchen (the 3rd)

You are typical of all MJ fans - a total fantasist!

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Michael's biggest fan

Yeah Michael was kind, lovely, warm hearted and a genius, he never molested children, was good with his money, didn't abuse drugs, wasn't gay or even black. leave him alone!

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Gertrude Stein

lol :)

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Michael's biggest fan

Oh and another thing..he wasn't racist, never had plastic surgery, was a Christian and wrote all his songs, had lots of friends, never lied to or bribed anyone and didn't steal the moonwalk from James Brown. So there! I love him and want to have his babies. 

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Dollie

I think Micheal was a hell of a man others are just jealous of him. They wished they could of been him.He is gone so keep the bad thoughts to yourself.Noboby is to judge him but the good LORD THANKS!

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eastvanray

At least you got one thing right.....He was a HELL of a man.  And that is exactly where he belongs!

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Doedi

The mystery continues with Michael??? WE LOVE HIM AND WHAT TO KNOW MORE! The Big QUESTION IS WHY? HE WAS SO LOVE AND THE WORLD LOVED HIM.

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Must Be Heard

She is not his girlfriend !! I know who she is and she has been with him over 20 years. She is very private, so he writes her loves songs, visits
and made himself to look like her. I know I am her best girlfriend and have been her friend over 25 years well before she met him.
He is not gay, he loved her too much.

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