Misandry due for a fall

by smkovalinsky | August 11, 2009 at 05:45 pm
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It is no secret that the second wave of feminism  -  what I like to call "hyper-feminism",  and what Christina Hoff Sommers,  author of Who Stole Feminism?  (1995)   calls,  "gender feminism"  -  has been guilty of a pronounced misandry.  Anyone who doubts this ought to look closely at the skewed behavior of the courts toward so called "deadbeat Dads"  -  some of whom have not even fathered the children they are being demanded to support.  Along with this,  examine the illogical and punitive "date rape" phenomenum, still not dead,  though it is gasping,  and many other social ills which are the result of a misandry that has gone unchecked for decades.  

Equity feminism is an essential part of a progressive and democratic society:  It views person as equal,  and evaluates their talents, abilities, and character,  without respect to gender.  It grants to the human person its rightful supremacy,  while gender becomes a secondary characteristic.  Not so with hyper/gender feminism:  It exalts and magnifies gender;  it seeks to prove feminine superiority, and to devalue males and the phallus.  It is divisive and regressive.  It is a fly in the ointment of a decent society.  

Howe and Strauss,  those two formidable and most shrewd historians and futurists predicted,  in their epic,  The Fourth Turning:  An American Prophesy (1997)  certain trends.  Working within a saeculum framework of history  - one in which the natural cycles of history,  comparable to the four seasons  -  the two scholars and researchers pinpointed the year 2005,  approximately,  for what they call the fourth turning.  This denotes a point in history in which deveolopments which occured in the first 3 cycles reveal the inherent conflicts,  as Ortega y Gasset says,  "without any concealment of the brutality of the features".  This is where "the chickens come home to roost";  this is the time when resolution and change must surely come. 

There is a fatality at work in human history:  A secret animus of power which is purposive and corrective.  The election into the high office of President ,  of Barack Obama,  has the stamp of fate on it.  I do not believe he is a proponent of hyper-feminsim.  I view him as a supporter of equity feminism,  and a poised sword of vengence for the atrophy and blight of gender feminism.  If he has not revealed this  -  yet  -  in his actions,  it is because he is aiming for a frontal attack.    This sort of attack is a head on attack,  but one which is indiscernable by the competitor.  The latter is attacked in his strength,  and not his weakness.  Though a head on strategy,  there is a certain amount of stealth implicit:  Attacking the obvious, when it is the hidden which is vulnerable.  

Time will tell.  But I am banking on Obama.  One might say,  it is his peculiar fate to make an appearance on the historical stage,  at just this moment in history.  

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a211423

I have not read The Fourth Turning, but I can see where cyclical rhythms in history imitate the rhythms in life.  The human life path follows biological, psychological, and spritual patterns guiding growth and change; therefore, if we view society as an extension and mirror of ourselves and our communities it is logical that social patterns would evolve out of these processes.  We human beings ask ourselves:  Where do I stand in the world?  What is the world really like, and am I content with it?  What forces are dominating the push/pull of culture? What is the balance of power?  And most of all, is my position complacency or change.  

Social constructs evolve similarly, and sometimes the backlash takes us a few steps backwards as we evolve.  But its okay to make mistakes because that is how we learn.  I hear the cry of injustice in your voice, and I respect your concerns with the balance of power shifting, but I view this as temporary, and we will see the pendulum of equality move to the center as men become influenced by the expectations of the 21st century, and women become less defensive from years of shouldering the responsibility of children with no support. 

The analogy of a bad relationship where every partner from that day forward bears the brunt of all the mistakes and bad habits of the initial unsavory relationship.  At some point in healthy relationships, the negative remembrances give way to new information, attitudes and experiences.  A crisis has ocurred, and from it a wiser person emerges.   

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smkovalinsky

Yes, you are correct.  There is not, and should not be,  any reutrn to former ways.  But a when there has been a false tip to the left,  then it must be counterbalanced by an equally false tip to the right,  and then,  as you say,  the middle will be the true ground.   Equity feminism is an important democratic truth, and men should adapt themselves to it.  Gender feminism,  on the other hand,  is undemocratic, and has caused a recoil, an inevitable backlash.  But yes,  indeed:  the spiral goes not round and round only,  but onward and upward!    Crisis will indeed lead to new heights.  Thanks for your astute remarks. 

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a211423

You are welcome.

Instead of equity feminism, can we call it human equity?  Call me an idealist, but I envision a world where gender, race, age, and ethnicity relinquish their preeminence.  Not that we cannot be proud of our personal characteristics, but that they no longer are exploited as a force for dominence, prejudice and suppression.  Compassion and tolerance will be our guiding tenents.  Sounds a bit like Shangri-La, but what better to strive toward.    

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smkovalinsky

I hear you,  sister,  LOL!  I would say that human equity is the goal, and the saving grace, and the enobling and distinguishing feature of democracy.  And the universal parity of existence,  extended even into the realms of nature ,  ought to be the supreme goal.  Bravo (or brava?) once more.  

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a211423

Indeed, universal parity of existence:  I like that very much. 

Bravo comes to us from Italian for brave and before that from the Latin from barbarous.  Barbarous in the sense of being fearless, courageous, bold, and audacious.  The plural is Bravos.  Because we have been able to discuss a controversial topic amicably without using personal attacks, I would say Bravos!  To us.

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smkovalinsky

Yes,  I was meaning the feminine,  brava,  but indeed bravos!  is apt!

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