Perez Hilton and Kirstie Alley twitch slap each other on Twitter

Bravo for showing your a normal woman, Kirsty.

Bravo for your healthy attitude to losing weight & wanting to inspire others again, even though it massively multiplies the pressure on you to succeed. (Your asking for heartache there.)

Do you really think you need to lose so much you’ll get around in a bikini?

I would like to see you achieve an 'age' appropriate weight instead of aiming at bikinis. My kids would cringe if I ever got around in a bikini, no matter how well it fitted. I'm over 50 & loving it, I'd rather go nude than wear a bikini.

I’m normally a lot thinner but even then wasn’t happy with myself image. I need to lose about 15 kilo that I put on in only 7 months after giving up my usual career for an age appropriate job behind a desk. Which meant for the first time in my life I spent the day sitting on my R's. Not binge eating or anything like that, just sitting.

It's a killer.

I am watching "Just Shoot Me" & <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 />Nina is very thin. But at the same time I really think it would be bad taste if she posed in a bikini.  You wanting to do that is no different to the magazines airbrushing models which puts pressure on young girls to look perfect when anorexic.

<?xml:namespace prefix = st2 />Grace Kelly would never have posed in a bikini, she had way more class than that. Coco Channel or Audrey Hepburn in a bikini? I don't think so.

You can be a first in another zone. It's about time we had a role model for the mature woman. A role model who we all recognise understands how hard it is to stay healthy. A woman we can all identify with honestly. Jane Fonda & Dianne Keating have moved onto the next generation & are very classy about it but now it's all about hiding the wrinkles they accumulated through years of starving themselves and becoming massive gym freaks. That's not normal.

We need a woman who hasn't spent years dieting but tried it, did it, & then suffered for it.

Now you’ve learnt from it & can show young women what they should aspire to be like in these wonderful years of freedom. After those working & mothering years where we never get to focus on ourselves for who 'we' want to be. We need to show facts about the negative effect dieting has on our brain cells & bone structure as years go by.

Not forgetting how teeth, hair & nails are all effected by these fads. The truth is we just need to get up off our R's, eat 'everything' in moderation, read more labels on what we're eating & drinking & complain about the toxic additives that generate the cravings. Even our vegetables are covered with toxic sprays. We should drink more tap water instead of bottled water (it's in plastic for crap sake). We need to laugh more, dance more, walk more & breath deeper. Stop the obsession with staying young. I meet women heartbroken because their husband left them for a younger model. My response "Serves him right! Lucky escape for you." He's obviously an immature dipstick. All woman go through the same needy whiney, guilt ridden, self pitying dramas at the same ages. It’s the obsession with self image that puts us in that hole, depressing us so much our partners long for the old times.

If a bloke wants to go through it all again after you've finally past through it, then he's either a masochist, a fool or suffering from his own inadequacies. 

thankfully Karma has it that during that newfound rebirth, he finds his youthful thinking really is all in his head & then finds he can't satisfy her.

Hence 'Viagra'.

Why do you think the medical board passed Viagra within months of being created yet Aids patients have waited a couple of decades to get some of their medications past? I can guarantee you it has nothing to do with young guys or married couples. It’s all about stupid immature old fools.

Adds a whole new meaning to being “stiff as a board” after the heart attach inevitably puts him out of his suffering.

I'll challenge you to lose 15 kilo with me, minus the gym, starvation diets & militia putting pressure on you at weigh-ins. Everything in moderation. I'll check your twitter to see if your interested.

As far as commenting about Perez Hilton... lets not. Just the fact that he spends his time putting down others shows that he's juvinile & has yet to learn compassion. Therefore he isn't yet anyone that would be of any value in yours or my life. Let's move on.

Heres' to you being the 'Fabulous 50's Role Model of the next decade.

Big hugs from the big girls. XXX