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Rites of Passage, Time to Pass the Torch On
There are many times that we find ourselves on a whole different path. Our life is never the same ever again. There is no going back.
It is important to acknowledge these significant times. As many cultures do with Rites of Passage, where children enter adolescence, then adulthood. Boys become men, girls become women.
There is also the Global Rite of Passage, never happened before, discussed at the end of the page.
Women have been celebrating these momentous times forever, gathering at retreat centers. What isn’t talked about a lot is the rites of passage for men and for our teens now entering adulthood, taking up the torch as we reluctantly pass it onto them.
As I recently wrote to my nephews and nieces:
As the next generation rises, we the “People of old” pass the torch onto you. Be wise and strong. It is a special time in history. It belongs to you now!
We will always love you and be with you.
Every young person has the divine right to their own visions. Rites of Passage have been the birthright of young people since the dawn of time. Nearly all tribal cultures provide their young with an opportunity to seek their own vision and enter into adulthood with a spiritual connection to the Universe.
Western Civilization is unique in its denial of such Rites. Vision quests are not considered the proper pursuit of our young. Initiation into adulthood comes without any real ceremony or spiritual training. Young people are brainwashed and forced to conform by compulsory education, graduated, and then dumped into boring lives in the hive. Fifteen years later, numbed by hive religion, hive sex, and hive drugs, they find themselves in the final stages of terminal adulthood. Dead men and women in a dead world, chained to monthly payments and struggling to put something away for retirement.
There is no road... By walking, one makes the road, and upon glancing behind one sees the path …" Antonio MacLado
The Male Life Journey and The Male Spiritual Journey follow a natural progression referred to as "seasons" into maturity with transitional periods along the way. Moving from ego developing first half stages; which is rightly focused on action, achieving and accumulating, to eventually moving into the second half of life; a reflective time which requires us to let go of those outer identifications, inviting us to a greater sense of inner identification through the awareness of
the sacred in our life experiences...
For many men in every age group, those wounds are still open and bleeding. Rooted in shame and fear, men either isolate themselves, become loners, and suffer in silence, or repeat addictive behaviors to numb the inner pain.
“As the curtain rises, we see an adolescent culture entering into a monumental rite of passage into adulthood. The elders who have been in charge are no longer showing us the way - for the way is so different they truly don’t know what it is....
In this rite of passage, then, there are no figureheads to lead the way, no authority figures who will solve the big problems for us. For the task of initiation is to awaken our own authority. ...Not only are we on our own, we are simultaneously the first few generations saddled with the responsibility of saving the entire world. Our ancestors worked to save their tribe, expand their empire, or defend their country now the protection of the planet itself is at stake...
The root of the word authority is author, which means that we are all writing this story together through the collective speaking of our truth."
-Waking the Global Heart, by Anodea Judith, PhD, 2006
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There is a new "Global" Rites of Passage happening now. Our adolescent Earth is now entering adulthood. Our human population has grown to its adult SIZE. The population has almost tripled in just 50 years.
"What does it mean to come of age as a species? How do we weather the coming storms and create the necessary transformation? How do we make sense of what we have done in the past, so as to better understand what we must do now?"
- Waking the Global Heart, Anoeda, 2006, page 26
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at 12:56 on July 15th, 2009
Dead men and women in a dead world, chained to monthly payments and struggling to put something away for retirement....