SPRUCE UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP;XMAS MAKES A GOOD PRELUDE TO A HAPPY VALENTINE

In planning for our Xmas gifts to that special person in our lives,it normally slips our mind that Valentine Day is just less than two months away from Xmas day.

There is a lot that we can do to make Xmas an exciting prelude to an exhilating Valentine.

First,this is an opportune time for the ladies in our lives to turn tables and take initiative in pampering the man in their life.

Nothing shakes up a man like a thoughtful pleasant surprise with an icing of well meant loving words.

Men by their very nature have learnt to expect less gifts from the ladies in their lives.

They expect less at Xmas.

Most expect none at Valentine day.

If your man sent you a dozen roses on this year's Valentines day,Xmas day offers you a good chance to reciprocate this gesture by surprising him with a gift that reminds him that you are still his Valentine nine months later.

The good thing about doing this at Xmas is that this will be a good investment(a rain check) that will draw his feverish ardour on Valentines day next year!

Chip in with works like"this is to thank you for those lovely roses you gave to me on Valentines day!"

Ever wondered why most men forget important anniversaries in your life?

Its because nothing that is pleasantlly surprising happens in between to make them feel appreciated for small things that they do for you!

Sometimes I wish I could be a lady for just one year and prey on Men's greatest weakness;the longing for pleasant spontainity from that special lady in their life! I could have this world and more!

Ladies,the ball is in your court!

Xmas or Valentine?

You can have both at the price of ONE!