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BelaynehKassaWubie | July 13, 2010 at 01:20 am
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Although difficult to generalize, the international norm is men usually inviting women for food and drinks. Especially in Africa and most probably in Asia, it is men inviting women. Even if the women are richer than men, the culture is men who invite women. Why is it so?
The reason, in my opinion, is that if the woman invites the man, the man automatically interprets it as the woman is seeking for sexually intercourse which actually is not in the mind of the woman. Should not this culture be reversed with gender equality?
It is true that this is not a worldwide culture. My friend who stayed in Norway told me that it is women who drinks in bars while men at home cooking. By implication, it should be women inviting men in Scandinavian countries. If my friend told me the truth, this again is a culture of feminism which is not acceptable. But the culture of most countries is masculinism and that is why men are the inviter than women. Is it not?
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at 03:37 on July 13th, 2010
How unfortunate you must be? I'm frequently invited out by women even though I'm almost 60-years and married. Women of my own age, older and frequently much younger too. I have several girlfriends in their 20's. We sometimes even go out as a party, including my wife who personally knows everything there is to know about my life. I'm an artist and I'm also invited out by many of my clients which also include women of all ages. I really don't see it as a issue of feminism or masculism.
at 03:57 on July 13th, 2010
"....I have several girlfriends in their 20's ..." Oh, girl friends in what sense? You are 60s having 20s girl friends ...! Lucky or unlucky!!
at 08:10 on July 13th, 2010
relationships with the opposite sex, women isn't about sex. It's about treating them equally, being a good listener, valuing their opinions and judgements, enjoying their company. I don't judge people because of their age or sex. I have 7 girlfriends between 25-29 years and it was they who sought me out and frequently visit my home to discuss various matters or just enjoying being with me, or going out to a restaurant or concert, with or without my wife.
at 05:27 on July 13th, 2010
Women usually act according to the restraints of their culture. Fortunately, in the US women are free to ask men out and go out alone or with friends. The only way my husband would be allowed to have girlfriends is that the relationship is purely platonic. This is another interesting article Mr. BelaynehKassaWubie.