Angels in Waiting Offers Octuplet Mom Help

I wonder of she is also shopping for a Brad Pitt Look a like? Now there is a Reality Show in the making!

Angels in Waiting should be ashamed of themselves, instead of looking like a helping organization they appear to be more of a danger to this family. How dare someone call in to DFACS to ask for an investigation! This women has a family and she needs help, but this kind is hurtful. So many moms are on governement assitance, so many crack whores have 15 children and nobody cares. I pay taxes and those taxes go to paying for help for this woman and not bombs to kill people I think we would all be better for it. Move on, if you are going to help offer...privatly, the only ones getting publicity here is a terrible lawyer and an organization that is dealing with this aweful women, that instead of helping picked up a phone and tried to have the children removed, shame on you!

Is this a joke? I am stunned this charity has offered such generous help to this mother, who definately does NOT deserve it! Need yes, earned, NO. She isnt a mother but rather a baby machine. I hate to see the little lives that are affected by her selfish narcistic acts, but when the children are taken out of the home and adopted by loving families, their needs will be met. To use the donations of generous people at $135,000 a month to help her is crazy! While she is off shopping at Nordstroms and getting her manicures and lip gloss - she isnt so much as using that money to buy diapers and food for her children or spending any time with the 6 she currently has. The neglect and abuse going on in this family is overwhelming and I cant believe authorities are standing by watching this happen on live TV. This is a gross misjustice to these little lives who deserve better than to be in this environment. We will no longer donate to this charity and neither will anyone else we know. Gloria needs to keep her nose out of this....although we know she pounces on any chance to get herself into the lime light.

This mother should not be rewarded for bad choices, she needs to be evaluated and under go serious in-patient help. As far as her ever returning to the workforce to support these children: yeah, that's what these kids need, not seeing mom at all and who is it that will be taking care of them? She will never be able to work, nor should she with 14 kids at home! She is insane and these kids need to be removed from this home before they are messed up for life!

Call the offices of Angels in Waiting and Gloria Allred and tell them what you think.  To encourage anyone to help Nadya is only to encourage other unstable women to get invitro and plan mega births.   This group cannot go on forever supporting her to the tune of #135,000 a month.   Octomom must surely think that she has hit the jackpot.

Tell Angels in Waiting that you will not ever donate to them and that you will spread the word.

I was furious that somebody wants to help her (since she's scammed enough money from us, the taxpayers). So I checked - Angel in waiting is actually not helping the mom. The offer help in exchange for $130,000 per month, which they are hoping will come from donations from public! Angel in waiting is basically offering their services!

As for her father's plea - do not punish her for what she's done! If you steal, rape, etc..., you go to jail. Why should she not be punish for what she's done (being irresponsible)? Certainly, she SHOULD NOT be rewarded. Pls. pls. do not send any donation - she's got enough of our taxpayer's money already!!!

Apparently her family is into "suing" & getting money through welfare, disabilities, etc.... Her mother sued an insurance company for water damage!

Here's a good article on this messed up family:

http://www.whittierdailynews.com/news/ci_11611648

How many of you know how the dept of children & family services operates??? I didn't know either but after doing my "homework" I was quite shocked, the info I have is only for LOS ANGELES COUNTY: they have a 1.6 BILLION dollar budget (the largest in the nation) they have taken 36,663 children from their homes, that is a huge # of kids, the more children removed, the more funding, in 2005 they completed 3,106 removals but in 2007 the number went up to 12,276 that is an astronomical increse, their goal is for "permanancy" that is the new word for ADOPTION the hype with this is an $85,000.00 bonus for the social worker that comes with every child that is adopted... Personally I think that is horrible, DCFS answers to nobody, every three years they put together a "self assestment report" in 2008 the 2004-2007 193 page report says that they have failed 12 of the 15 requirements, in the real world they would all be fired (& probably should be) but noboby is looking into this, it is so much easier to point at the "single mom" I hadn't even heard of her until she gave birth, her babies are beautiful, but 14 kids is 14 kids, she is going to need a helping hand, and if food stamps is also needed come on, give her a break, I would rather feed the little ones then give more $$$$$ to the greedy social workers,the nasty lawyers or the "non-profit" orgainization. Every move this new mommy makes the camera is right there in her face, apparently today she was at Nordstroms, and Fox feels it's news worthy, maybe just maybe she got a gift card and wanted something to make herself  feel "pretty" I don't know, but lets try to be nice

This woman has lied and committed fraud on so many levels.  If she has emotional and or mental problems then those children should NOT be left with her regardless of how much she "loves" them.  The entire situation is an aweful mess. This mother should not be rewarded for irresponsible decisions.  Ask yourself  what woman who already has 6 children (3 of them disabled (1 has autism)) would purposely have a procedure to get pregnant while living at home with her mother and no means of financial support. No woman that I know would do this.  I dont think that she will get many donations from the public considering that she was obviously not spending the money on the other 6 children since she had time and money for IVF treatments while receiving food stamps from the government.

While I definitely agree that someone needs to step in and help, I don't believe the help should be to support Nadya in keeping the children.  Most people are focusing on her lack of financial ability to raise these children and apparent lack of family, but let's also consider, even if she was independently wealthy, with 14 children, even if they were all 100% healthy, she can not possible have enough time in her day to give each child the attention and care they need.

And as they grow up, what if she has a child who has a more serious disability, or is just one of those children who need extra attention to stay out of trouble or stay track in school - that is time spent away from each of her other 13 children!  While this also happens with smaller families, because there may only be one or two other children in the household, since there are fewer children it is also easier to spread yourself out and give each child what they need.

I understand she says she loves these children and wants to be a mom, but she needs to stop being selfish and really consider what is best for her children and their well being.  There are many mothers who have had just one child that they had to give up their children to adoption who also deeply loved their newborn baby but knew that it was in the best interest of their child to give them a different home. 

It can not be good for these children to be left with this mother.  Not only has she lied, nothing in her recent actions to receive IVF has demonstrated she has any sense of responsibility to her children.

As was mentioned before, of the children she has, a few of them already have disabilities which would require a mother's constant attention - especially her child with autism!  Anyone who knows anyone with an autistic child knows, even in the best circumstances, that child thrives best when the parent is 100% involved, and there is no way she can be 100% involved with that many children.

Even if her other 6 children were healthy, it was an irresponsible decision to undergo IVF for more children.  She does not make a good mother for ANY of her children.

I don't know this girl probably any more than the rest of you, but for some reason I just can't get myself to say mean things about her or  her kids, the Nanny service that helped her with the first 6 kids have nothing but good things to say about her, the Dr's at Kaiser said she was the perfect patient during her pregnancy, her mom has said some dumb things in her interviews, (all old people say dumb things, not meaning it how it sounds) but she has also expressed her love for her grandkids.... The other day I was at Target and they were advertising Season 1 (or 2 i'm not sure) of Jon & Kate plus 8 the couple with the 6 babies & their twins, I believe they make $$$ off all the publicity, but that's ok???? I think it is,  they are so cute, I enjoy watching them, and obviously others do too. Try to get past that Nadya is single, let her be, nobody cares about her, the babies or her other children, it's all about the stupid catchword "TAXPAYER DOLLARS" if you want to know about wasted tax $$$ look into The Dept of Family Services, it will make you sick. I agree 14 kids is alot of kids so she'll need a helping hand, I want to help, I love babies!!!!!

who are we to judge anyone. everyone has there own problems in life. and thank god people are reaching out and helping. more people should be helping each other out/ and them babies deserve the best care just like anyone else's children. its about the kids.