the art of making love with a woman
This is not the best or only way of approaching the topic, but i've found it works consistently .. There are many components to the technique but central to it is keeping the idea of pleasing her in your heart. Then comes mutual arousal - everything you do must not only arouse her; it must arouse yourself. Then comes the concept of limiting specific techniques - you can always overdo it on any one specific technique .. So let's get going .. (Warning: this essay is not for children; get parental permission before reading further.) Let's start with the most obvious: breasts. i've found the areas just under and to the side of breasts to be most erogenous. Nibble and lick playfully in those areas including the nipple and areola. But be very careful in those latter areas: it's very easy to over-stimulate/saturate sensitivity by focusing too much on nipples. The key here is vary time spent on various areas.. Unless she commands you to spend more time, vary the time your fingers and lips/tongue spend in any one place on her body.. Play her body like an incredibly complex musical instrument; never forget pleasing her is paramount. Next is bum and hips. i have found bum and hips to be particularly erogenous. These are my favorite areas because they symbolize femininity. If your lady has a significant waist, then include this area too here. i must admit i spend a disproportionate time on hip-bones, rear end, and waist because of above - it arouses me incredibly to stimulate these areas. Of course, i use not only my fingers, lips, tongue, teeth,.. i also use other various parts of my body - arms, calves,.. any chance i get to stimulate her.. (But i'm not a contortionist.;) Jokes aside, even the top of my nose can be a stimulator. (We'll see this later.) Okay, breast areas, bum, hips, waist .. Next is labia and clitoris. (For those couples who are new to each other, please don't rush into penetration - try these techniques first - you won't regret it.) If there's any area that i spend more time on than bum, it's the labia and clitoris. But as with penetration, don't rush to this area. You must spend time in other areas before moving on to this. And don't take above as a rigid sequence: vary your approaches to her .. but always save labia and clitoris for last. Think of it as a reward for your work so far. ;) Just like the nipples, it's easy to over-stimulate/saturate this area. So vary time spent here with other areas (unless she commands you to "stay!";). i particularly cherish the outer labia and joint between those and legs. By the time you reach her clitoris and vagina with your tongue, she will be likely begging you for penetration - but don't do it yet.. Spend some time teasing her desire with your tongue.. Make her wetness like the river Ganges.. Use her mucous to arouse yourself. If she's reasonably clean, her scent and taste will drive you mad with desire.. (This is where you can use the top of your nose to stimulate her clitoris.) So we're at the point of penetration. As with all the others; never rush into it (especially if you're new to each other). Take your time; but don't over-stimulate. With penetration, the key is 'savor the moment'. Don't rush into orgasm. Delay it as long as possible. Every time you feel like you're going to cum, stop and relax. Savor every stroke as if its your last in life. Imagine this is your last time to be able to make love. If you approach making love each time like that, you both will always win. About orgasm: i have not been very successful at timing mutual orgasm so i would not waste much effort on that.. Focus on the technique above and you will always be mutually satisfied.
If i can impress a prostitute and make a girl cum from a distance (without ever touching her), then there must be something to my techniques. i won't get into the latter technique because that's something intensely personal with me and the lady. (Like prayer with God.) i will share some prayers with you as a matter of course.. But making love with a woman from a distance is something you'll simply have to try yourself .. i sincerely hope this is my last essay (i'm getting Really Tired of being ignored). If you found this essay interesting and helpful, please look at my others. If you can get past the physics, you'll find them equally informative and stimulating.. Since this will hopefully be my last essay, i'm trying to get an interview with Oprah about 'the iam conjecture' .. With her and Stephen Hawking. (You have to read the conjecture to understand why i want the interview..) As i've said elsewhere: maybe i'm crazy, maybe i'm divinely inspired, maybe i'm Right - or maybe i'm all three .. May God bless you for reading this or any other of my essays.. with Love, sam