A Call For Equality of The Sexes In the USA

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Venkatesan R. Itengar wrote an article for Merinews titled “Female Deadlier Than Male” on the 6th of August 2007. In the article, she discussed about the changing role in which power have slipped from men to women. While the author may have talked about India, the underwriter would like to talk about the shift of power from one sex to another in America.

It is true that women have been oppressed in the past by unequal laws which favoured men. The society that exists in the United States of America at one time even denied the right to vote for women. It was expected that men did all of the work while the women stayed at home. The evolution of women’s right in the United States of America is something that deserves to be praised.

The negative part of the rights of women has been the relegation of men to secondary roles and high expectations that men cannot comply with. There are certain women who watch soap operas, Hollywood Idols of the day, and Reality TV Shows. While people have accepted this as part of entertainment, these certain women have a tendency to compare their husbands with what is seen on TV and criticize the husband.

The laws that are written in the United States of America generally favour the woman over the man and are based on the expectations of the entertainment industry that has corrupted America.

The underwriter remembered a case of a homeless person who was once happily married and with children. He was very happy with his family yet his wife made unreasonable demands on him. She never forgave him for not being able to perform sex on the first night of their wedding. [It appears that there was a Hollywood Program that said if a "man does not perform sex on the first night, he either has another woman or is a homosexual".

There is a program on TV by a psychologist who states "Women if you do not have sex, it does not matter if the man works, dump him".

The same woman criticized the man for everything that happened in the world. He was accused of abandoning the wife and daughter when he went on a business trip or even a sports trip. The woman even told him to "keep quiet" in public and intervened in his personal mail, e mail, as well as telephone calls in case of "mistress" or "espionage". The accusations were baseless.

She asked for sex more and more from his husband and when he was impotent criticized him even more. The result was that the woman and her husband became ill physically and mentally.

Finally, the woman went to her Physician and accused the husband of "psychological torture" and used all of the excuses that she had... In America, any accusation of psychological torture is reported to the authorities. The end result was that the man lost his family, his house, his income, and his freedom.

He was able to recover his freedom and reputation but ended homeless since no one would employ him. There were people who knew the man as a just one and his plight inspired many to reject compromise or even form websites such as http://nomarriage.com. [No Marriage.com is a website dedicated to talking about women in the USA although from the perspective of the person who wrote it.]

There were people who saw the plight of the man and started to reject a society that has become self cantered and which favoured women abuse of men. These same people converted to Islam or other religions and concepts which are not compatible with US Society. The man himself remains homeless and told the underwater: “The women in America want sex, no sex, you are dumped” and has refused offers of other women and has alienated himself from humanity.

In a relationship, there should be a democracy with the man and woman respecting each others individuality and personalities. The courts and society must respect man and women on an equal basis instead of finding refuge in ideologies that favour one over the other. A couple should not make unreasonable demands and they should live by themselves without other family members. If possible, the couple should go out and enjoy life instead of watching TV Shows that have destroyed the families. They should love and cherish each other daily.

It is hoped that one day, America and Western Society could wake up and think about a true equality of the sexes.