Discuss " the girl bosom friend " too

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Discuss " the girl bosom friend " too

       " beauty "  Original meaning mean young people ruddy face, Du Fu " will it be autumn dusk the personal letter of state in vain " poem: "Recall the son in luxuriant Yongjia for the first time, the beauty flour flower reflects the meat. " I.e. this purpose. Referring in particular to woman's pretty and dazzling appearance, Cao plants and " thinks of composing quietly": "He Mei rotten goblin of woman, beauty Ye shed light. " Amplify and mean beauties. Amplify and has one and has no bosom friend of opposite sex that does not talk about for the man or woman now, but will never become that kind of relation of the companion's. 
 
      " beauty "  From ancient times with "  Water of misfortune " Can't take off the responsibility. The falling once of Xia Dynasty, Shang Dynasty and Zhou Dynasty has confirmed compatriots again "  The beauty is water of misfortune "  View. 
 
        The sister likes the first illustration that is water of later beauty's misfortune, the sister likes to be the doting on the princess of Xia Jie. According to <<Does the daughter spread to tabulate? ; Xia JieMei likes to spread >>Load, Jie " day and night until sister like and maid of honour drink, have while having. Put the sister and like to listen to and use its speech on the knee " . According to the records of " emperor century ", sister like, like, listen to " split of the silk fabrics " ,Xia Jie tears the silk fabrics silks, in order to win her laugh. All the palace is outmoded, very unhappy that the sister likes to see kings, king Jie's sister's happiness in order to please, build and incline the palace, build the precious jade platform, build luxurious Joan outdoor precious jade platform with the malachite, regard this as and leave the palace, it is excessive to wet all day, pay no attention to the government affairs. Because Jie excessive and luxurious and brutal in king, people can't bear their bitter, trader soup seize the opportunity, raise troops, demand in summer, Jie on pair of chirping in king '  The east of Fengqiu of Henan Province of today)  The man-of-war frustrates, hold the sister under the arm and like to cross the river with the boat, runs away to the south nest (the southeast of nest of Anhui Province of today) Its mountain dies together. 
 
        Successive dynasties such as China "  Water of beauty's misfortune "  In,it pass probably it dotes on that princess is getting own in Dao to king trader times Zhous rich. <<Historical Records? ; Yin BenJi >>Record Yin Zhou king " the fine wine is excessive and happy, Bi, to the woman. It loves by Dao to be the own, own in Dao one speech is from " . He " regard wine as pool, hang meat as forest, make men and women to be naked, chase during that time, drink for long night " . Dao likes the view ownly "  The punishment that the big gun is baked "  ,Copper column with oil, fire it with the live charcoal, make the prisoner walk and fall in the charcoal red as fire on it, the foot board is burnt, send out the miserable cry frequently. Dao has already been heard the giving a blood-curdling scream of the prisoner, just laugh as hearing and stimulating the music of the sense organ. King Zhou smiles in order to win Dao ownly, abuse severe punishment. Dao own to instigate Zhou king kill one let, than official loyal to his sovereign that do, cut open belly dig the heart cruel, in order to the one that confirm in the legend "  The sage's heart has the seven apertures "  Statement. Say her to be gaudy like peach blossom " seal supernatural roll ", seductively charming and beautiful and colourful moving, millennium fox spirit unreal to take adult, poison and bewitch king Zhou's woman's charm to one's heart's content, misses the country dissolutely, no proper business of the affair, make Shang Dynasty become extinct. After the trader who kills people, in kill when Dao own, even slaughterer is fascinated by their beauty as week, can't bear to start, wish to die for it. 
 
       " bury a country with the laugh " Week lasting Si,come if describing, last Si for a such one passage " it is countries will the Eastern Zhou Dynasty "s beautiful of it: "Eye show eyebrow clear, lip red tooth white, take place, hold black clouds, mean, arrange, sharpen jade, like spend if moon hold, exeedingly beautiful apperance of country of inclining. " Though very beautiful to praise princesses, have " never smiled and smiled " . For this reason, the deep and remote king used one to award dose in week: " if who can ask the empress to smile, award him 500 kilograms of gold " . Then have "  Play with the duke under an emperor in beacon "  Court an allusion of smiling at of empress. The cost is captured by the west army in the capital, the deep and remote king was killed too in week, became extinct in Western Zhou Dynasty from then on. There is the poem that sighs and calls: "Keep fit in the palace and is played and in charge of the reed at good night, the beacon fire vault of heaven for no reason. It is bitter that the miserable countries run quickly, stop praising princesses to smile richly! " 
 
        People often link the fault of these monarches causing a state to perish to woman's charm, so, sister for summer like, Dao of trader own, week praise Si succeed target that cursed right away. In fact, I think these own two of liking the sister, Dao " the heart is like the malicious scorpion " Evil spirit daughter call that cover boat of it of "  Water of misfortune " It is apt, but it is " major part of wrong " to praise Si ,Is she plundered for the woman by the deep and remote king of week, or cherish the memory of the native land, or it is " innocent playmates " to miss Lover,it is full for intestines in gloomy mood to be just, the depressed. " duke under an emperor of beacon play "  Just regard matter of fundamental importance of the country as the wretch of the trifling matter the monarch and his subjects "  Do definitely " ,What is done to ministers! Praise Si and cause a state to perish and give a strained interpretation! 
 
       Certainly, the above " weaker sex " All take a photograph of the souls of people "  The beauty " ,But not " bosom friend " ,Like " in perfect domestic harmony " Trader Zhou Dao mixing the ball equally is own, is only the dog men and women with congenial foul smell too at most! 
 
        Spoke above "  Water of beauty's misfortune "  ,But I think the thing is divided into two, say from another side, " beauty " of the country of mistake ,The process of promoting the development of China's social history is not exactly these " beauties " Fascination,it accelerate last process that become extinct,it last China the each " changes of dynasties "s of the histories ? 
 
       " girl bosom friend "  Strength to change history replace either of millions of bold warriors, 3 the Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region Wu " it is a beauty to bristle with anger " "heroic undertaking "  It is a very good illustration. ZiCheng Li capture behind the Beijing, three the Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region of fathers Wu surrender insurrectionary army, Yuan Chen plunder troop under one's command of Li. When Wu three the Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region agreed to and surrendered Li Zicheng, smell round account for inferior officer Liu ZongMin of Li already, it wash it is great since it preceded anger,the high to ask "true man can what their rooms born self-insurance for? " Then has surrendered in the clear army and peasant's army and made war. This is that Wu's plum village calls in " round song ": " whether wail six army all white mourning dress, it is a beauty to bristle with anger " . Three laurel well-trained and well-equipped army of at that time Wu is guarded " if one man guards the pass, ten thousand are unable to get through " The Shanhai Pass,it we can say "must get the world three the Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region Wu " ,If not in order to reseize the old round this one "  Girl bosom friend "  ,Three the Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region certain life to take into account relative Wu go and seek refuge with ZiCheng Li, that heavy along disintegrating like regime would not crush dry weeds and smash rotten wood; If not because Wu three the Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region wants to pass and clear army "  Cooperate " Recapture one's own loved one "  Girl bosom friend "  ,District as many as ten thousand district "  Army of the Eight Banners "  Can drive straight in the Shanhai Pass, snatch Beijing? History can't be supposed, but a " girl bosom friend " Have change history, has become " eternal poetic masterpiece " at all times and in all lands ! 
 
      " girl bosom friend "  Have promoted the development of Chinese classic literature. " girl bosom friend "  With the scholar's close contacts, have offered the source of the inspiration for the scholar's creation. Open each of Tang poems and Song ci, " girl bosom friend " It is nearly a target of scholars' singing. Certainly said here "  The beauty " Refer to the brothel woman, this needn't be very shy either, because everybody knows, in ancient times, the brothel woman is a legal job, it is the trade with higher quality of obtaining employment, not only it is good to require the face to be handsome, the fine bearing is invited tall and erectly, but also the lute-playing,chess,calligraphy and painting, poesy of song and dance are mastered allly, it is equivalent to the American collegegirl of prostitution now. And the woman of good family at that time "  The three obediences and the four virtues "  ,The scholars only go to the brothel to seek the bosom friend, look for the bosom friend. 
 
       In order to distinguish Du Fu, there is " Xiao Du " Du Mu of the elegant name can be rated as the affectionate person of the literary world in the Tang Dynasty, his poem contamination " girl bosom friend " . Distinguished and admirable and affectionate Du Mu, the wine soaks the liver sausage, worries about entangling it in the heart. A pair of bodies, have one's bosom filled with the signs of getting drunk, together with being full of ideas for state policy or programs, hand over to the girl bosom friend, it is the love to spread to human world. In flourishing Yangzhou, Du Mu's footprint is stepped on the brothel, still drank after a night not to return. Just during this period, he writes down a lot of immensely popular poems handed down from ancient times. "The wine transportation in year of down and out towns and villages all over the country, the clear waist is light in the very thin palm. Feel Yangzhou dream over ten o'clock, gain brothel thin good fortune name " . This is poet's portrayal in the true life of Yangzhou. " girl bosom friends "  Having brought source and inspiration created to Du Mu, their daily life, their emotion destiny often becomes poet's perfect material. If " cigarette cage cold water moon envelope sand, moor Qin the Huaihe River nearly wineshops night. Trader's daughter wonders that causes a state to perish to hate, the front yard flower after still singing through the river " . When Du Mu wants to bid farewell in Yangzhou, he does not forget to " girl bosom friend " either Concern about feeling: "Affectionate but like always merciless, only think not to smile before cup. The candle is still felt reluctant to part intentionally, weep for people to daybreak " . After leaving Yangzhou, have written a large number of thought and cherished " the girl bosom friend " especially Poem. 
 
       Compared with Du Mu of the excessive feeling, the willow " produces silt without dyeing " forever ,To " girl bosom friend "  The the single-minded persistent,it makes people the surprised to be the incessant, " beauty feeling"s outstanding It is thorough to perform. " it is " that he bids farewell " if the cold cicada of continuous heavy rain bell of rain is plaintive  Girl bosom friend "  Eternal famous chapter: "This goes year in year out, should be fine moment the good scene is in name only. Have a thousand kinds of conditions and customs vertically, with whom to say even more? " Express a one's own one single-minded, talent left to part only, a thousand conditions and customs have tell later on.  " hold palmistry and see the tearful eyes and have no language to choke to compete " ,How to be become excited by people "  The feeling is holy " Ah! Liu Yong, the officialdom is frustrated, unworthily moves in the song workshop, brothel, but he has not sunk into, " follows the order to compose a poem to a given tune of ci " ,Have " born and changed and sung the bubble reputation simply and profoundly and low " ,Accomplish to a generation of distinguished and admirable gifted scholars, drive a pronoun wind, take the lead in a generation. The willow opens new era of the poetry of the Song Dynasty forever, must praise the willow forever in reviewer's leaf dream of big literature of Song Dynasty: "it is the all there is,can song willow word " . The most famous scholar Ji Xiaolan claimed in Qing Dynasty: "The poem, as studying Du Shi, the word acts as and studies the willow word. " Unless appeal to both refined and popular tastes words on willow forever, it has to be the a refined style vulgar,descendant as. Even Su Shi claims only among brothers forever with the willow. Liu Yong from "  Girl bosom friend "  China has drawn the inspiration, he is " beauty " too at the same time Construction warm "  The spiritual home "  . " beauty "  Too only in singing there aren't willow, just feel love is substantial. "Do not wish kings to call together, wish so that seven of willow shout; A thousand unwilling gold, wish seven hearts of willow; Do not wish immortals to see, wishes to know seven pieces of willow " It is " beauty "  Heartfelt wishes! The willow is frustrated before death forever, it is sad and dreary too to pass away, " bury the money and competes and has not appeared " ,It is said "  The beauty " Collected fund bury he. Of the " three speech " that MengLong compile Feng, famous chapter to have " all name spring breeze Ji hang seven willow ", the story claims, on every Pure Brightness, there are " beauties " It state drink wine the Yaos in front of tomb forever at willow,when " hang willow can " where people call ,Let " windward shed in the tomb " too . Do not participate in "  Hang the willow to know "  , " the windward flows in the tomb "  Person,it go for an outing in early spring on it dare it get it is the happy to it is be original to visit, to agree on is more vulgar. After until the fact that high cases of south Song cross, this kind of custom did not break down. The descendant has question willow of poem tombs clouds forever: "Happy to visit and have many prostitutes originally, try the windward best to flow in seven tombs of willow. Funny confusingly confusingly government official people, does not have sympathy for talented persons as all red skirts. " Person becomes a document before death "  The beauty " Spirit sustenance,behind death too " beauty " The tears are spattered into a river, really " unprecedented, and then there is not the person that has come " ! Here I can't help, associate it with, hide grams of verse of house " some people live, he but death, some people have died, but he lives " ,Yes, willow three become, live in " beauty " forever In the heart! 
 
        Talking about this, someone will propose different justice, you take those " poets " Talk about the thing! Please look that "  Well-behaved "  Taxi doctors "  The beauty " Feelings! Bai Juyi's " recalls the South " series, is the poet, according to " beauty "  Demand by beginning cases to make neologisms table. In the " Pipaxing,name of a poem ", Bai Juyi and " those who have the same illness sympathize with each other, meet, needn't know each other ", woman of pipa, ,Can sigh in the world bigly, always Bai's classmate has only a " beauty " meeting by chance Become a bosom friend; Ouyang Xiu says: " the floor is too high to see the platform route of chapter "  ,Seem not to see woman in Taiwan of chapter, is full of disconsolate feelings; Luyou is innocent childhood friend too "  Girl bosom friend "  Tang Wan writes down the eternal poetic masterpiece " hairpin very beginning phoenix ", the plaintive poetry of the Song Dynasty; Gentleman visits and pounders the east slope on the past  " beauty "  Deceased wife, " life and death two is boundless and indistinct in ten years, does not consider, since unforgettable, one thousand li of fatherless tombs is not so dreary as place" ,Have nowadays enabled women and sent out too "  Marry the my darling as marrying Su Dongpo "  Sigh with regret! 
 
       " girl bosom friend "  Do not yield to man, has saved particular historical period the man's soul. Will it be clear will it be troubled times the beginning autumn end of Ming Dynasty, it is people that get deeply stuck in colony in spirit hollow too, emerge willow such as, YuJing, side Bian happy, bandit white door, MeiSheng Gu such "  National "March 8th" Red Banner "  ,A group of " beauties " Have cast "  The brilliance before the sun sets "  ,Make the man all over the world "  The spiritual home "  . Many can be rated as the most remarkable women such as Li XiangJun in ancient times in China. Kong Shangren's " peach blossom fan " ranks one of China classical four major love dramas, speak XiangJun and square story of land Hou Li. XiangJun Li make a living as a performer in Qin Huaihe River charming fragrant floor of side, pretty and dazzling to spend, feeling remakable just. She and land of the Hou 's of socialite at that time are in love. Square land Hou criticize the south bright affairs of state for, force, go into exile, separate far away with fragrant you Li from then on. Fragrant monarch Li hate corrupt and incompetent the south bright imperial court, support square land Hou struggle against them. She swears to die refusing to yield in the face of tiger's wolf with the weak body, unswervingly loyal to the emotion, would rather dedicate to the spirit of one's own life for the lover, nowadays those one knows that ask for, not know the soul of the person that devotes in enough shock! XiangJun Li go through innumerable trials and tribulations, reunite with square land Hou finally, get one identity of concubine too, discriminate against, strongly fragrant strongly fragrant and end, even child given birth to can only surnamed Li and can be surnamed Hou. That piece write down " minister nurse a grievance and die, the is ashamed all one's life " at the tombstone in fragrant monarch Li Hou square for land,how it let down entrust girl bosom friend in you life once that person? 
 
       The ones that mention fiery and forthrightly, have the overall interest at heart, consider the situation as a whole "  Girl bosom friend "  ,Can't help letting me remember the revolutions of Cai E and celestial being of little phoenix add the love. The celestial being of little phoenix, this seemingly weak strange woman, has helped star general Cai E of the republicanism to flee from Yuan Shikai's imprison, told from mouth to mouth with approbation because with that section of love that will not change even onto death of Cai more E's. They two feeling is happy, it becomes the eternal good story, also have more legends among the people that the hero beauty is laden with sorrow and touching. Present from E Cai little phoenix celestial being two can find out two people of some true feelingses unite: "Do not believe the beauty has born unlucky end; The travel fatigue happens to the chivalrous daughter of the origin. Its ground is as rare as phoenix feathers and unicorn's horn; The person reveals the famous pearl like the celestial being. " Cai E dies of illness in the hospital of Japan Fukuoka university according to legend, news introduces to Beijing, in public memorial ceremony Cai E in Central Park, the celestial being of little phoenix wears black yarn, have elegiac couplets to give: "45,000 the south day roc wing, support, shake at being frank, sympathize with worried remaining years such as he, meets by chance into a dream; 18 year the north blusher, since sad to fall low, gain hero bosom friend, peach blossom also a thousand years. " In the eighties of last century, this section of love was made into a film which was called " bosom friend ". The theme song sweeps across the north and south of great river, " a rare bosom friend in life in Li Guyi tell such as weeping, the eternal bosom friend is most difficult to look for "  Extremely let people sigh with deep feeling so far! 
 
       The wheel of history billows forward, as we scrutinize " the girl bosom friend " again Hour, people feel " the girl bosom friend " There is a silk "  Ambiguous " ,Many social ethicists regard it as influencing the family "  Dreadful monsters "  ,In fact I needn't think it great like this, " it is rational to exist " ,So long as we face him, get hold of degree, " girl bosom friend " One that can still become our soul is beautiful "  The scenery "  ! 
 
       Lu Xun has presented a scroll to Qu Qiubai: "Life has a bosom friend's foot, act as it generation then with cherishing and looking at it. " ,Say the bosom friend is in the position in life, and the attitude towards bosom friend. The bosom friend of the same sex "  Extremely easy to obtain "  ,The man all have several a pack of rogues, the woman all have confidentes in several boudoirs. I think "  Girl bosom friend "  Status and function is for same sex for bosom friends what has been can replaced! There is not " the girl bosom friend " Life close to one slice desert,hope Death too but steps timid, who it take to like live on desert all one's life? 
 
        About " girl bosom friend " ,I read a model recently: Someone"  Girl bosom friend "  Divided into three kinds of realms: First realm in the " the Book of Songs " " Jian Jia grey, frost, what is called she in White Dew, in one party of water "  ,Expect each can't i.e. beauty beauty,can meet each by good luck that can't ask; Second realm in the poetry of the Song Dynasty " whether with shy to leave, rest on door turn one's head, but take a sniff at the greengage " ,That one to love but like enticement that love; The third kind of realm is a pair of antithetical couplets, the first line of a couplet is " on call at any hour " ,The second line of a couplet " waves it and goes promptly " ,Horizontal wall inscriptions are " all good for you " . See this kind of statement, not only I not merely thump the table and shout "bravo!", but also too penetrating! But understand, first two kinds just match " the girl bosom friend " according to me ,It is noble, it is a kind of heart and exchange of heart, is the distillation of a kind of human nature, worth seeking assiduously! And the third kind, if call it " the girl bosom friend " ,That is profaning! Just one kind "  Open a way in stink "  "skin and flesh trade "  ,Just some "  Chase the discredited person "  Pretext! 
 
       " girl bosom friend "  It is a deep clear spring, it can be in order to make our mind warm; " girl bosom friend "  It is a light breeze, what it can let fly away and try to stop but cannot is vast and hazy; " girl bosom friend "  " moist all things on earth thinly and silently "  Spring rain,it can wash away we soul; " girl bosom friend "  It is one slice even more "  The shelter forest "  ,It can cover and attack us "  The sandstorm "  ! Have heard of one recently  " soul is lonely and hollow "  High level intellectual spend "  Beat while being sadly beautiful "  To finish one's own loneliness, particularly shake. If he had a one that can lay one's heart bear that is loyal and faithful to "  Girl bosom friend "  ,Perhaps he will also leave in the voyage of life "  Truth, good and beauty "  Orbit! 
 
       I am "  Girl bosom friend "  Carry the banner and cheer, because I think: " girl bosom friend "  Can find you "  The shining point "  ,Can find the value of different class of your life, let you feel one's own strength! Like our network of living by one's pen, if is the spouse, certain to say: " whether others pan gold ore out brick on the net, you collect the broken brick in the misty rain " ! If yes "  Girl bosom friend "  ,See you beautiful characters and artistic conception, a certain to become excited one say: "You are too talented! " . Because of " girl bosom friend " With " money " Have nothing to do, " girl bosom friend " It is a kind of realm of appreciating each other. Flow over this material desire today of ultimate attainment, " girl bosom friend " Have already become us "  The spiritual home "  One Corporation floating in secret fragrance daffodil! 
 
       Certainly, " girl bosom friend " Hold certain one "  Degree " ,Not because "  Girl bosom friend "  Having treated one's own family coldly, must not " it is a beauty to bristle with anger " ,Must " whether chicken fly to dog jump, one place chicken feather " house lanes and alleys ! Advocate " the girl bosom friend " ,Do not connive at " the red flag of the family does not go bankrupt, the coloured flag outside floats " ! Should remember, if you have the honor to run into " the girl bosom friend " this life ,Must not enter "  The clinical state "  ,So know only "  Both suffer losses "  ,The ones that have broken you "  Girl bosom friend "  Dream! 
 
      " girl bosom friend "  ,Sing it until nowadays eternally, " girl bosom friend " ,It is good too to dream of, lure, it has pushed forward the advance of people and the society after all! 
 
       Man mud, woman water, fine mud meet good water, can build, appear Qin brick Chinese tile, can write out Tang poems and Song ci.

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