Jett Travolta's Unexpected Death

I am a liitle concerned about the way society is looked down on the unfortunate death of Jett Travolta. As a mother of an Autistic son, I can tell that Jett  had some form of autism. The characteristics include..

1) lack of eye contact

2) Walking on toes

3) Non-verbal (however, my son is verbal)

4) Seemed spaced out (off in his own world)

It is though a mis conception that autistic children aren't able to love. They love their family More than most kids... Here's my problem though. Everyone is so focused  on the fact that Jett died of Kawasaki disease, however he probably had some form of epilepsy. And everyone is worried about how John feels, and thats great. BUT What about Kelly, His mother who carried him for 9 months, probably breast fed him for a time. There needs to be sympathy for her. No one loves a child like their mother does!!! And its very disturbing that everyone is focused on John because he is more famous, and that seemed to put Kelly on the back burner.. Well, to Kelly, you are a tough woman. I couln't imagine your pain, nor do I want to.