Living/acting out of fear is NOT an option
This article is as much for me as any man/woman out there who's afraid to approach 'the one they love'. The more you care about someone, the more afraid you are of rejection. If you don't care, then you're never afraid. If you are unsure about someone, use that as your guide (if you don't know how you feel about someone, if you're terrified to talk with them, that's a good indicator you really like them). Right now at this very moment, i'm terrified to talk to a woman. i'm hoping she feels the same way. If you understand above, you know i'm terrified because i care for her greatly. If she's terrified to talk to me, she also cares for me immeasurably.
Fear is a good indicator of strong feelings but here is where i need you to pay strict attention. Fear is not a way of life. You cannot let fear dominate your feelings nor life. If you let fear dominate your life, forever you will miss your opportunities. Just use fear as an indicator of your strength of feelings about someone.. Don't let fear dominate your relationships or future!
Once you realize that fear is simply the fear of rejection, the fear of being hurt, the fear of a broken heart, you can overcome with love. If you truly love that other person, you can use your love to overcome your fear of rejection and approach them with say: a valentines card, a special 'love note', or other token of your affections.. Again, use fear as an indicator of your own feelings but don't let it dominate your life .. Once you decide to act on your feelings, don't go overboard while at the same time, don't be lame. As anyone who knows me personally, i made the fatal mistake of using youtube to express my interest in a local woman. This is patently Lame. Don't let fear dominate your life. If you're so afraid of rejection that you must make a youtube video about your feelings, it's not worth it. You're letting fear control your life. Take it from an expert sissy. i have let fear win me over time and time again; you cannot know how many times i've walked away from a woman out of fear of rejection.
Very few times in my life have i mastered my fear and approached that woman. Very few. So again, take it from an expert 'sissy master' who has caved into his own fear uncountable times.. Fear is NOT a way of life.
Overcoming your fear can be quite liberating.. Be emotionally ready for the consequences.. At the same time, always be accountable for your behavior.. Never take a drink and blame your behavior on the booze.. Booze can loosen some internal strings or inhibitions but don't depend on it for your courage. Again, take this from an expert. Bottom line is: be true to yourself. Don't miss your chances in this life. Regret can be the most painful emotion. Don't learn this from experience. Listen to 'the sass' for once.
Again, i'm writing this for you 'out there' as much as i'm writing it for myself. Remember, the eyes are windows to the soul; you will Know if she/he likes you from their eyes.. If you can get them to make eye contact with you, you will know how they feel about you / how open they are toward you.. Some girls/ladies have given me the most beautiful smile i've ever seen.. They continually outdo each other in that sense.. i'm continually awed by women/girls about their capacity to love through their eyes.. God has graced my path so many times in this respect, it becomes uncountable. Be open to love. Be open to life. Open your eyes to life. Open your heart to love.
..A few articles ago, i said 'this is my most important article' but.. Just like the Prime Goddess continually amazes me with Her smiles, She also continually amazes me with Her inspirations.. If there was any article that was truly divinely inspired, it would be this one.
in True Love, sam