US teenagers need real sex education

by generaldecay | August 1, 2009 at 02:14 am
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In Me, My World, My Future – a textbook used in public schools across the country – students are told that "relying on condoms is like playing Russian roulette."

I recently highlighted a guardian.co.uk piece which reported the failure of abstinence only programmes in America, and commented:

This piece argues that the rise in risky sexual behaviour among young people in the US is linked (ironically, of course) to George Bush's 'abstinence-only' agenda. It bases this claim largely on research evidence which indicates that comprehensive and thorough sex education is fundamental in reducing risky sexual behaviour and unwanted pregnancies.

Another guardian piece (from Comment is Free - America) argues that teenagers in America need real sex education. I couldn't agree more.

A high school in New York has come under fire for providing students with confidential STD and pregnancy testing – but after a decade of failed abstinence-only education programmes under the Bush administration, it's programmes such as these that are exactly what we need to promote healthy teen sexuality. In the US teenagers are having sex as much as they ever did, but they're using contraception less and getting pregnant more. In fact, the teenage pregnancy rate has risen for the second year in a row.


Here are just some of the shocking tales teenagers in the US are told about contraception.

It should come as no surprise that this is happening, really – after all, teenagers are just going by the book. A 2002 study found that one-third of US teenagers hadn't received any formal instruction about contraception. For those who did learn about it, false scare-tactics awaited. In Me, My World, My Future – a textbook used in public schools across the country – students are told that "relying on condoms is like playing Russian roulette." A Case Western Reserve University study found that Ohio students have been taught that the birth control pill increases young women's chances of infertility later in life. And in 2005, teens at Montana's Bozeman High School were even taught that condoms cause cancer. So why would teens want to depend on something that they're told is not only ineffective, but cancer-causing to boot?

Now, hopefully, this tide is turning and American is waking up and being realistic about the sexual behaviour of teenagers in America. We'll have to wait and see.

Now, American parents would like their teenagers to be taught that the only surefire way to avoid pregnancy and STIs is abstaining from sex – because that's the truth. But the truth is also that the vast majority of parents want their children to learn about contraception in sex education classes. Ninety-five percent of Americans will have pre-marital sex; the best way to prepare young people for their sexual futures is to ensure they're able to make healthy, well-informed decisions.
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Barry Artiste

As we all know Teens have raging horomones.

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Beaulieu

It doesn't help when you get celebs like Jude Law having one night stands and being surprised at having a baby. When you don't know the person well, you take precautions and that includes protection from STDs'. I don't think adults are fully aware of STDS too.

What teenagers and adults need to do is to see STD's with their own eyes such as in photographs or video. I wonder how many people actually know what they look like. Some horrible photographs with ikky googey stuff over certain areas, would be just the ticket. 

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Amy Judd

I agree, shock tactics like that often work very well.

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generaldecay

Some horrible photographs with ikky googey stuff over certain areas, would be just the ticket.

That's not a bad idea. As Amy says, there's nothing like shock tactics! Thanks for the comments, Beaulieu.

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Beaulieu

I wonder how many readers here actually know what STDs actually look like.  I think they will be amazed. Not only for the 'gunge' but what about the pain that goes with it. If people saw the photos and heard first-hand accounts of people who had STDs, they'd always wear protection. It think facts as opposed to 'shock tactics' would work, plus the fact that if you have an STD you have to track down your boyfriends.. which could be difficult and embarrassing. It is probably a lot of unpleasant hassle people could do without.

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Beaulieu

Absteining would be a good idea. I would give teenagers 'more respect too'.  There is a lot of pressure for them to have it but it takes lots of confidence to make them abstein.

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generaldecay

But it's not realistic - if there's one thing we know, it's that teenagers are going to have sex. It is a waste of time and resources to promote abstinence.

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Beaulieu

I don't really think it is a waste of time to all teenagers. Some teenagers have strong religious beliefs  or values, and they often abstein and even want to. Some will have sex early but there are loads with confidence and religious beliefs who don't. I think putting 'all teenagers' in the 'I want to have sex at 13' brigade is misleading not all teenagers want 'a reputation' in the schools and it is us girls, who 'get the worse slapper' impression.

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Amy Judd

What they are being taught is just shocking, and once you are told something early on in life, it's very hard to get it out of your head, even if you know it's not true.

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generaldecay

You're absolutely right, Amy. And these things are taught in such a culture of fear and suppression that it is very difficult to shake off their effects.

Thank you for the recommendation and comment. :)

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Beaulieu

I think parents should show them some photos of the STDs. It rests their case.

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Beaulieu

I have spoken to several teenagers who think people who have sex 'with just about any boy'  stupid and they don't want kids early and want to put their careers first. What is not helping is the media promoting it left right and centre. How many teenagers have said their first time is disappointing 'due to inexperience', disappointing first time sex should be promoted.

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Beaulieu

Let's face it, teenage men have absolutely no idea!

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Beaulieu

More promotion on the fact that it is often all about lust not love, and 'being used' too. First Time Sex and then the man leaves you the next day type thing....! It is hardly love at that age but teenagers think it is. Let teenagers have their own 'standards'. 

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