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Dying to Live
Sort of an extention of "scared straight", mock funerals are helping some to take their own lives -- and potential-- more seriously. Corporations are also hiring "well-dying" consultants to transform their workforces. I'm not sure, though: perhaps my own mock funeral would motivate me to dedicate myself less towards work, and more towards other pursuits.
After solemnly reading their wills, seven perfectly healthy university students climb into caskets in a dimly lit hall.art.mock.funeral.ho.ap.jpg
Student Hwang Yun-jin lies in a coffin during a mock funeral in Chungju, South Korea, in November.
"I want to give all of you one more day to live, but it's time to be placed into coffins," a man in a black suit says in a resounding voice. "I hope your tired flesh and bodies will be peacefully put to rest."
Workers nail the coffins shut, then sprinkle dirt on top as the lights are switched off and a dirge is played. Muffled sobs can be heard from some of the coffins. About 15 minutes later, they are opened and the five men and two women are "reborn."
The mock funeral, which aims to get participants to map out a better future by reflecting on their past, is part of a new trend in South Korea called "well-dying." The fad is an extension of "well-being," an English phrase adopted into Korean to describe a growing interest in leading healthier, happier lives.
"I felt really, really scared inside the coffin and also thought a lot about my mom," said Lee Hye-jung, a 23-year-old woman studying engineering. "I'll live differently from now on so as not to have any regrets about my life."



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at 11:05 on January 13th, 2008
Apparently, a new profession started up in Korea a few years ago: "Death Coordinators." From an article from SBS TV: 데스 코디네이터는 먼저 김할머니의 재산부터 파악합니다. 건물과 연금 등을 포함해 김할머니가 쓸 수 있는 자산은 모두 1억 9천여만원. 데스 코디네이터는 우선 김할머니가 돌아가셨을 때 꼭 지출될 장례 비용 2000만원을 뺍니다. 그리고는 할머니의 생존가능 기간을 먼저 가늠해 본 뒤, 매달 건강관리비 36만원, 보험료 88만원 그리고 사회기부금까지 구체적으로 생전 지출비용 등을 산출합니다. 품위를 유지하면서 김할머니가 지출해야 되는 비용은 월 3백 59만원이 제시됩니다. 자식에게 털어놓지 못하는 할머니의 고민도 귀 기울여 듣습니다." These death coordinators figure out the remaining assets of their clients and minus various death-related expenses(!), they calculate how much money is needed for their clients to maintain a "well-being" lifestyle before they pass away.
There's also a movement described as Death Scholarship Association...for people to get together and contemplate about death and its meaning...
at 21:56 on January 13th, 2008
Yeah but what of the hired Wailing Widows for the bachelors, What of them?