..through a glass darkly..

i swear there's a Shakespeare sonnet relating to that but for some reason - i cannot find it now he.. About 33 years ago, i knew a man who was one of my best friend Patty's father. Synchronistically, we talked about that sonnet and why it was meaningful to him. He had inscribed it on his dead wife's tombstone.. In fact, that was one of the most 'bizarre coincidences' of my life he.. Previous to meeting him, i had read the sonnet 'out of the blue' looking for 'favorite ones' to remember ;) So somehow the Divine Goddess was preparing me to connect with that man spiritually :) Can i say “Thank God for God?” ;) he..

In my 49 years, i believe i've had 'spirit sex' only three times so it's an extremely rare experience. What i mean by spirit-sex is where two ppl make love over a distance with no physical contact whatsoever. For privacy, i will call these women: A, B, and C. With woman A, she orgasmed visibly and was directly in front of me in a school setting. In all three cases, i sensed the woman at least 'liked me' so it was decidedly not 'psychic rape' as Patty incorrectly labeled about woman A he.. Patty was an outspoken feminist who rejected the 'Captain Kirk' conquesting image of some men which i was never about in my life; i was always about meaningful/lasting interaction when it came to relationships. Back to the story he.. Woman B was more recent but also more distant. She was not in visible range and it was late at night.. How can i confirm she had a mutual experience? A look can convey a 1000 messages; let's leave it at that .. Woman C confirmed the interaction via internet so it was an 'interesting' supporting experience of the concept ;) The fact she resides on the other side of the planet indicates these are 'spirit plane' interactions :)

As i recently wrote Gug, i don't know if we'll ever identify what we presently call 'the spirit' physically. Perhaps it's better that way ;) Perhaps when we make love (truly), perhaps it's less of a physical experience and more of a spiritual experience. i have some personal evidence to offer maybe in another article.. Imagine a 'free love' world where we can make love 'at the drop of a hat' .. Disease wise, this is dangerous even with protection he .. But about love, i believe it's preferable and something we need to be working towards for the simple fact: love is never wrong.

i'm not talking about fuc_ing. i'm talking about making love.

And it should be very clear i'm not a sex-crazed sex-starved predator he.. If the experience only happened three times in forty-nine years, you get my point.. If you think about it carefully, the concept is only limited by your imagination :) You can give someone a 'spirit kiss' or caress :) It's only limited by you :) You will know when your advances are welcome or not :) It comes with the territory :)

So why the obscure title? Cuz most of us don't really know ourselves – our own strengths and weaknesses.. Spirit-love is something we all need to grow about :) Something we all need to experiment about :) Something we all need to pursue :)

So humanity: spirit-caress, spirit-kiss, spirit-make-love, spirit-love,.. as much as you can :) It may be the 'deciding factor' in these tumultuous times..

spirit-hug, sam

A video version of this article can be found here:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HvOe1fI11ek