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Why men's love decrease after sexual intercourse?
It is common that men’s love on women fed up soon after sexual intercourse. While women’s love increases after sexual intercourse, men’s love dramatically decreases after sex. This is undeniable. Most men agree on this behaviour even the sexual satisfaction was good. Women want men to kiss them and treat them well after sex but men are not interested. Why is that?
Men have to get some time between sexual intercourse to come to love women again. Why men ‘hate’ women after sex may be due to tiresome but again women can also feel tired after sex yet their love to the men rather increases. Would this not be an issue for research?
Based on my information, extreme men kick women down from bed just after sexual intercourse. But this does not mean men hate women after sex forever. After few hours, say 3-5 hours, their love or affection to the women rises again and the cycle goes like this. But to make generalization is difficult on the issue before conclusive research is conducted.



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at 05:36 on August 7th, 2010
Doesn't apply to me. I feel sorry for women who have to deal with men who are like that.
at 10:30 on August 7th, 2010
What about to your friends? Please, let's not deny facts for the sake of political, social and cultural reasons. If it is fact it is fact, if not not. Let openness, truth and transparency govern the world, plrease
at 21:40 on August 7th, 2010
Sure. If this is true, then the reason most likely is that these men have been taught that sex is something dirty and that women with whom they have sex are made impure or less valuable by the act. I do not see this as something natural but based on indoctrination. The way to test this is to see the extent to which this is true in cultures that stigmatize female sexuality (such as Muslim and Catholic) as opposed to cultures like Native American that do not.
at 21:41 on August 7th, 2010
Sure. If this is true, then the reason most likely is that these men have been taught that sex is something dirty and that women with whom they have sex are made impure or less valuable by the act. I do not see this as something natural but based on indoctrination. The way to test this is to see the extent to which this is true in cultures that stigmatize female sexuality (such as Muslim and Catholic) as opposed to cultures like Native American that do not.
at 21:47 on August 7th, 2010
The principle of diminishing utility of needs after greater satisfaction from the need may also apply here; just like food!
at 12:10 on August 8th, 2010
Why not an evolutionary explanation? Women are instinctively keen to establish permanent bonds with sexual partners, in order to get help for raising children in case of becoming pregnant. Men are programmed to look for other sexual partners ASAP, in order to maximise spreading their fertility.
at 14:43 on August 10th, 2010
not true. The reason why men are tired after sex is because they lose vital nutrients after ejaculating, unlike women. Also, to explain why you are wrong, evolutionarily-speaking, women cheap as much as men because men, in the cave-men era, were more likely to die un-expected due to the dangers of hunting, so women constantly seek a man on the side in case that happens. Men also form just as strong of permanent bonds with women, because a child grows up more successful with two parents. One more thing I should add: To look at the cave-man era and think men had the opportunity to "spread their seed" does not look at the facts of social life during that era. People lived in very small communities where everyone knew everyone else, and by looking at primitive tribes of today, it is not likely there were many men who "spread their seed" by having sex with multiple women. That is more of a modern phenomenon caused by men in large populations where no one really knows each other, which is un-natural.
at 04:02 on August 11th, 2010
"...The reason why men are tired after sex is because they lose vital nutrients after ejaculating, unlike women ..." I agree on this point and people tired of does not care about love. That may be the reason men does not care about women immediately after sexual intercourse. I think!!
at 17:43 on October 12th, 2010
I'm sorry but... PFFFT HAHAHAHA this has got to be the stupidest thing I've read all day.If a man ''loves'' a woman less after having sex he didn't love her in the first place. He had the hots for her. Of course sexual interest would decreases after sex; you've reached your climax, you've satisfied your craving, all's done. But if you really loved someone you wouldn't love them less after sex.I feel sorry for people who equate lust with love.