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Swinger Sex Partners: Should We Try a Threesome or a Foursome? (Video)

by DanAndJenn | July 13, 2007 at 09:59 am

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Some couples are much more sexually curious and adventurous than others.

These are the swingers and other sexually liberated souls seeking threesomes and more, together with their life partner.

While many have fights and arguments due to petty jealousy, others actually open their sex lives to others. They share and enjoy these experiences together, and amazingly enough, these experiences often bring a couple much closer together.

The mass media often portrays swingers are very risque and living a dangerous, risky life - but the fact is most swingers are much more cautions about safety and safe sex than their single counterparts. After all, these are generally couples playing together, so you have someone on your side planning with you at all times - you’re not winging it as you often do in the singles scene.

While these relationships can sometimes develop into polyamory, often times swingers just live the lifestyle and enjoy playing with their friends.

But of course the jealousy monster can always rear its ugly head, so always prepare and plan ahead before venturing into uncharted waters in search of new sex partners. There are rules and boundaries you must agree on with your partner ahead of time - no exceptions.

Also there are some great resources below to help you make the most of your new experience and avoid the common pitfalls that can lead to relationship disaster and, yes, break up.

Today’s question is from a couple in New York ready to try their first threesome, or even a foursome.

Dear Dan and Jennifer,

My girlfriend and I want to try a threesome or foursome. I agree with this, but I just want to know which one is least likely to cause me problem in my relationship?

– Jose in New York

Watch this short video for our thoughts on this very interesting question…

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Kaitlin

flagged this story as Fishy

at 10:14 on July 13th, 2007

Hey DanAndJenn I found some things that didn't pass my sniff test. Could it be... fishy??? You might want to fix some stuff up or else it's headed to the bottom of our bird cage.

Are your posts anything other than ads to sell the products or services on your website? If not what you're doing is Spam, and it violates our Code of Conduct.

You also make broad statements and sweeping generalizations with no sources or backup info. For instance, you state that, "The fact is most swingers are much more cautions [sic] about safety and safe sex than their single counterparts," but you do not back this up with any hard info. The same goes for, "...these relationships can sometimes develop into polyamory,"--another claim for which you have no supporting evidence. Without evidence, these claims are merely Opinion and your story should be marked as such.

If you can prove that this is not just sophisticated Spam, or if you back up the preceding claims with hard evidence, I will happily remove this Fishy Flag.

DanAndJenn

at 11:10 on July 13th, 2007

Hi Kailtin,

I think you may be confusing 'the news' with actual fact. I can dispute 95% of what I see in the news paper every day! But that does not mean that it's not news worthy... News worthy simply means that other people are interested in what you have to say.

And our reader base of over 100,000 readers per month shows that lots of peple are interested in what we have to say. (And yes I can back this up with facts...)

This is not spam and we are not presenting facts for our thesis... Just good solid advice that is true to the best of our knowledge. We are syndicated advice columnists and make no other claims.

Just because you don't find it interesting, does not mean that it's not news worthy.

Is it this article or swinging that you have an issue with?

Actual News Geezer

at 11:16 on July 13th, 2007

Actually, Dan and Jenn, we do have a fairly clear definition of what is "news":

At NowPublic, we have a very simple definition of news that allows
our members to be assured that what they read is actually newsworthy:

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We believe that most people have this in mind when they search out
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Based on this clear statement I thoroughly agree with kaitlin's flagging of your item.

Mark Schneider
Actual News Guy

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