Intelligence and Success: False causes, true causes

Many ideas about the causes of intelligence and success are wrong. This is as much the case for those who have negative outlook as it is for those who believe that they are positive.There have been times and places in which having a brain was equated with cynicism and...

What Will 2007 Hold For You? What Are Your Resolutions and How Will You Achie...

What will this New Year hold for you? Will it bring you greater wealth, better relationships, a healthier body with less fat, and a reduction in your blood pressure… Or will it be more of the "same old same old". It all begins with a choice. Make the decision that this...

Develop an Attitude for Success

"How we deal with misfortune can make the difference between defeat and victory in our lives. We’ve all heard stories about Thomas Edison.  He went through thousands of unsuccessful attempts before coming up with the filament light bulb.  When his factory was virtually...

How to Accept a Compliment or Praise

"I’ve written a lot lately about how important it is for us to compliment, praise, and thank others.  Equally important, however, is learning how to graciously accept compliments, praise and thanks from others.  All to often, we tend to brush aside the kind words of...

Come on up to the Podium

"As you promote within your company, you will find increased opportunity to be visible, both within your workplace and without.  One way that you may be asked to represent the company is by speaking at an event, organize a conference, or participate in a public forum. These...

Remember to Say Thank You

"I’ve written previously about the power of praise, and how important it is to motivating and inspiring people.  One of the simplest was to extend praise is with two simple words — Thank You. Think about the last time you extended and thank you.  Was it well thought...

How to Eliminate Defensive Communications

"Do you frequently find yourself involved in verbal battles with other people?  If so, defensive communication may be part of the problem. Defensive communication occurs when one party to a conversation feels threatened, attacked, or is trying to protect their...

Stop Concentrating on Concentrating

"I’ve been having some problems concentrating lately.  Earlier in the week I posted about some time wasters.  I have been identifying with them far too much, however.  There are some tasks that I’ve been trying to accomplish, but instead I have become absorbed in all...

How to Ease the Pain of Embarrassment

"It is inevitable.  At some point in your career, you will have to deal with the embarrassment of a blooper, public gaffe, or oafish moment. Although you may think that you’re going to die, there are no recorded deaths from embarrassment.  However, embarrassment can...

Give Someone a Pat on the Back Because they Need it

"All too frequently today, people are starved for a little praise.  Whether we are willing to acknowledge it to others, or even admit it to ourselves, we all need a little praise in our life. Awhile back, Milo wrote a post about his belief that a leader should not give...

Say What You Mean & Mean What You Say

"One of the most important skills for a leader to possess is the ability to communicate effectively and appropriately. We frequently think of communication skills from a public point of view:  a press conference, interview, or speech, but some of the most vital communication...

Don’t Let Molehills Become Mountains

"Have you ever obsessed about something to the point where it took on a life of its own?  Where a small irritant became bigger than life?  When that one irritant consumed a disproportionate amount of your time? When this happens within a team environment, it can destroy...

Leadership Turn » Is Your Body Language Shooting You in the Foot?

" Body language is a vital part of your communications.  They send out a powerful message, and should be working to support your verbal message, rather than work against it.  If you feel like you are always being misunderstood, perhaps your body language is...

Top 10 things successful people have in common

What makes a successful person? There are some common features for highly successful people