Naive/Sweet or Knowing/Aggressive: Which would you choose?

You Must Be Aggressive In Court - Defense Rarely WinsIn 1999 I was a sweet girl. I was optimistic, hopeful and had the idea that all I had to do was walk into a Court room, tell the truth, and everything would be okay.Fourteen years later – My daughter is Fifteen years old...

Sabrina lost her grandmother

Sometimes - being a beautiful child makes a baby an easy target. At least that is what the late Louise Hey thought when she learned that she would never see her only grandchild again. Louise Hey recently passed away. We are left with the...

Reflection on Esther L. Wiggins, Family Court Judge Arlington VA

It has been a long time since I wrote anything about Judge Esther L. Wiggins in Arlington Virginia. This is the woman who single handedly, without remorse, ruined my life and my daughter’s childhood. I am not going to rehash every hateful thing she said, or silly thing she...

An Ounce of Prevention...Judge Esther L. Wiggins

My daughter is 14 years old. The last time her father allowed me to see her, she was 7 years old. I saw her at her home in Alsace, France December 7th, 2005. My beautiful girl was unable to speak a word of English. Her father abandoned her with two elderly women. He...