A broken family
The answering machine says, “Thank you for calling Brian, Janina, and Tony Wasilewski.” But for nearly two years, Tony has lived alone in his house in the northwest suburbs of Chicago, separated by more than 4,000 miles from his wife and son.
On June 8, 2007, Janina was deported, and the Wasilewskis decided it was best for their son Brian, who was about to turn 6, to go back to Poland with his mother.
Janina arrived in the U.S. in 1989, a refugee from communist Poland, and she applied for asylum as a member of the solidarity movement. By the time her case was heard, more than four years later and after she had met Tony, the political situation in Poland had changed and her asylum claim was denied.
During an immigration court hearing in 1995, Janina was ordered to “voluntarily depart” the U.S., but she only spoke Polish and no translator was present. The judge didn’t address her directly or explain the repercussions of not leaving the country.
Had she left then, the possibility of returning legally would have been much better. But she didn’t, instead staying in the country and continuing to build her life in Chicago.
In the meantime, Janina gave birth to Brian, a U.S. citizen, and Tony received a green card and sponsorship through his work that gave the formerly undocumented immigrant a path to citizenship.
In 2005, the Wasilewskis tried to get Janina’s case reopened and reviewed. But it was dismissed by the 7th Circuit Court of Appeals. In March 2007, she received her final deportation order and in June, just after Brian graduated from kindergarten, he and his mother left for Poland.
“I lied to him, I lied,” Tony said in a film made by Dreams Across America, an immigrant advocacy project. (The video has been uploaded to YouTube and can be seen here.) “‘Brian, it’s only vacation, two or three months.’ How (am) I going to explain to him (that) it’s not two or three months, maybe two or three years?”
As a deportee, Janina has to wait ten years before she can come back into the country. That means ten years away from her husband, now a U.S. citizen, who has stayed here to run a cleaning service company, the family’s only source of income.
“This was the hardest decision of my life,” he said.
In September 2007, Tony testified in front of the Congressional Subcommittee on Immigration, Citizenship, Refugees, Border Security, and International Law, and told them his family’s story.
“I am the father. I am the husband. Now, I feel lost,” he said.
He hopes that by continuing to tell his story—to Congress, to the press, and to anyone who will listen—he will be able to push for immigration reform that will prevent other families from being broken up.
“I feel obligated not only to share my story but also to be a voice of countless broken families who suffer due to our irrational immigration laws,” he told the committee. “I hope this hearing and my testimony will help all the separated families so they can be united again.”