California Sees No Rush Of Gay-Wedding Bookings

by Dave Keating | June 4, 2008 at 12:28 am | 157 views | 1 comment

It would appear that many gay couples in California are holding off planning large wedding ceremonies until after the ballot initiative set for November, which could amend California's constitution to ban gay weddings and invalidate the California Supreme Court decision.

As California prepares to lift its ban on same-sex marriages, hotel proprietors like Cosette Trautman-Scheiber are wondering where all the matrimony-minded gay couples are.

California's Supreme Court ruled May 15 that the state's ban on gay marriage violated its constitution, paving the way for such marriages to begin June 17. Yet Ms. Trautman-Scheiber, who owns the Hope Merrill House bed and breakfast in the Sonoma wine country, is puzzled that she hasn't received any inquiries about her new elopement and honeymoon packages targeted at gay couples.

Other hotel chains, small inns and wedding venues also report a surprisingly small number of gay-wedding reservations. San Francisco, which many expect to be ground zero for gay marriages, hasn't seen a deluge of hotel or travel bookings, says a spokeswoman for the San Francisco Convention & Visitors Bureau.

One reason: Some gay couples appear to be proceeding cautiously because they are worried about challenges to the high-court ruling, says David Paisley, a consultant to the hotel and travel industry on gay and lesbian market research. "If the window [for gay marriage] opens, hopefully it opens forever," says Mr. Paisley. "So there's no urgency right now."

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Two more reasons:

  1. Lesbian and gay couples are planning inexpensive weddings and giving money to fight the November anti-marriage ballot initiative instead of spending money on lavish weddings.
  2. Couples are flying into San Francisco (and other cities) just for the day to have a quickie wedding and then go back to the state where they reside

Just because a couple hasn't booked travel/hotel/planner resources doesn't mean they aren't getting married.

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June 4, 2008 at 12:28 am by Dave Keating, 157 views, 1 comment

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