California's Mormon Community At Risk Of Division Over Proposition 8

by Can Tran | October 26, 2008 at 05:28 pm
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It was only a few months ago in June in which same-sex marriages were legalized in California. However, there are still people that want to see same-sex marriages banned in the state. Therefore, there is the major Proposition 8 campaign taking place this year. Proponents and opponents of Proposition 8 have poured in big amounts of money into this campaign.

As a result, Proposition 8 is one of California’s costliest campaigns. However, there is another cost. This one is more on a social and community level. While the Mormon Church is expressing its vocal support for Proposition 8, it is at a very big risk of an internal division.

It could be a division that will be hard to recover from. So far there are Mormons that oppose Proposition 8. However, they are sad, frustrated, and scared about hearing another sermon about same-sex marriage.

Carol Oldham is one of those Mormons. She has been a Mormon for a very long time. However, she is uneasy with the zeal of her church in its support for Proposition 8. So far, it seems that the glare from people in the church at the rainbow pin she wears is getting to her.

Oldham said: “I am afraid to go there and hear people say mean things about gay people. I am mourning. I don’t know how long I can last.”

So far, the LDS Church has been very active in its support of Proposition 8. To defeat Proposition 8, the LDS Church is not pulling any punches. However, there is still the cost of an internal rift within California’s Mormon community.

There are those that disagree with the campaign and have fears that they are unwelcome. Some have decided to lay low after Election Day. The feelings of uneasiness are not just limited to those against Proposition 8.

There are supporters of Proposition 8 concerned about the zeal put forth.

According to Armand Mauss, a sociologist and a supporter of Proposition 8, he said that the internal damage will be great. Mauss explains that relationships will be damaged between the members. He adds that the damage will go a long way.

Mauss said: “In some cases, it will result in disaffection and disaffiliation from the church because of the ways in which their dissent has been handled by local leaders.”

So far, the Mormon community of California may have to brace itself for damage before, during, and after Election Day. For those that feel they cannot publicly express their opposition to Proposition 8, there are websites that have emerged that allow participants to tell their stories online.

One such website is Mormonsformarriage.org.

Not only is the Proposition 8 campaign one of the costliest, it is one of the most tense and heated. On a side note, it was a bit over two week ago that Connecticut had legalized gay marriage.

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master_jim2008
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at 17:37 on October 26th, 2008

Can Tran, I like this story. It's good stuff.

Mormons are IMHO a bunch of cultist whackjobs anyway. Just another part of the far right fringe. A fringe who fights prop 8 yet they used to practice polygamy, yeah right, real moral there. They need to STFU and live and let live.

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at 20:14 on October 26th, 2008

Can Tran, I like this story. It's good stuff.  Yes on 8 since homosexuals already have rights the same as marriage under civil unions.  Gay marriage is simply a recruiting tool to get young kids at public schools to believe they are really homosexuals.  Since so many of em are dying of AIDS, they need new recruits.

In Massachusetts if parents object to their children being taught about homosexual marriage, they are promptly arrested.  It violate the first amendment rights of parents.  Freedom of religion is being trampled upon, since the bible condemns sodomites as immoral people.

Lexington, Mass., father of 6-year-old arrested, spends night in jail over objections to homosexual curriculum in son's kindergarten class.

"Because of the same-sex marriage law people are treating this as a mandate to teach the youngest of children." 
        - David Parker, parent of 6-year-old, arrested Apr. 27, 2005

The judges ruled that because same-sex marriage is legal in Massachusetts, the school actually had a duty to normalize homosexual relationships to children, and that schools have no obligation to notify parents or let them opt-out their children! Acceptance of homosexuality had become a matter of good citizenship!



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talentedchimp

"Gay marriage is simply a recruiting tool to get young kids at public schools to believe they are really homosexuals.  Since so many of em are  dying of AIDS, they need new recruits."

This statement is nothing but ignorant homophobia.  You bleat about freedom of religion but you don't see your own hypocrisy.

Rachel Nixon
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at 20:21 on October 26th, 2008

Can Tran, I like this story. It's good to hear about other aspects of the electoral process this November.

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at 01:56 on October 27th, 2008

Can Tran, this is interesting.  God bless 'em, every one, as Tiny Tim used to say.

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at 02:28 on October 27th, 2008

Can Tran, I like this story. It's good stuff.

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Todd Henderson

Good for you.....you found the 1 mormon in the whole state that is against prop 8. I am an active member of the church, yes on 8 supporter, and I have give alot of time and money toward making this pass. Unfortunately, we will get it passed, some whackjob judges will overturn the will of the people again, and we will be back to square 1. This is a perfect example of the wickedness of our times that we live in. I just want to get a bowl of popcorn and a diet coke and sit back while society self destructs around me at the hand of morally bankrupt liberals. The hollyweirdos could never produce anything as good as this

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Angry in CA

I am not Mormon but I have many Mormon friends at work.  There have been bloggers that have compiled lists of Mormon executives in my company who have donated to Yes on 8.  Now my company is being labeled as a Mormon company that is anti-gay.  While every person has the right to donate to the cause of their choice, the result has been very divisive among the employees in my company.  We have worked very hard for diversity in my company, and for getting along without regard to religious background, gender, ethnicity or sexual orientation.  Now employees who previously never gave a second thought to working with Mormons are now viewing them with animosity.  They wonder, "Why do they hate gays so much?  What has a gay person ever done to them?  How does legalization of marriage between gays hurt you and your faith?  What is next?  A ban on interracial marriage?  A ban on women working?"  I really don't think the Mormon church realized how bad the fallout is, and will be if Yes on 8 passes.  It will have scored a short term victory, but a long term defeat.  Those who have been persecuted are now persecuting.  What a terrible shame. 

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