Canada: Kid Crime Skyrockets
Opinion
Barry Artiste, Now Public Contributor
It really doesn't require a degree in Rocket Science to figure out why Kid Crime is Skyrocketing, and it certainly doesn't require a Doctorate degree in Brain Surgery to figure out who is to blame.
Just as the Peace, Love & Sex Music industry in the 1960's drove the Drug Culture all over the World, Rappers glorifying Pimps, Guns, Drugs, and Whores are doing the same to our children, not only in Canada, but Worldwide. From War torn Palestine to Mormon Utah, Rappers tough guy sell complete with Gats, Guns, Prison Life and Bling mould impressionable young kids brainwashing them into a lifestyle emulating their Ghetto Heroes in the Music World.
One would think Rap Videos where Rappers shooting rival East-West Coast gangs over lyrical territory, would be portrayed as a Lesson to Kids to stay away from that Lifestyle, much like the ridiculous 1960's Black & White Drug videos showing a Prim and Proper woman who at a party takes a single drag off a joint and in the next scene she is seen as a Wild Whacked out Babe whose life spirals out of control, thinks she can fly and tragically jumps out of a highrise window. Then a man in a lab coat, pipe in hand, brushcut and horned rimmed glasses retells the story with a stern lecture to the audience, relaying Junk science stats, everything from Drugs cause Communism, promiscuity, to Elvis hairdos in children certainly did not stop Drugs and Music glorifying it's use in the Hippie Culture.
Heady stuff, Both the Rapper videos and 1960's videos mirror both lifestyles, one glorifying it, one showing the tragic circumstances.
The reason why Kid Crime and Guns is skyrocketing is simple, kids brains are like sponges, sucking up everything they hear and see. Kids from every class from wealthy to the poorest families all want to be from Da Hood, wear Gang colours, wear Bling, slap a gun into their waistband and "Walk the Ghetto Talk", especially to the uninitiated in their hood, hoping to impress the babes around them. The majority of these Faux Gang Kids are just that Posers, then there are the other Kids who take it to the nth degree: These are the Kids this story is about.
Peer pressure can turn a Kid into a real Lil Gangster, Peer pressure garnered from both Violent Rap Videos and their surroundings.
The difference between your 50 Cent, Vanilla Ice, P Diddy, and Ice T is one Walked the Ghetto Talk and got Shot 50 times for living the nightmare, the other one being a Faux Gangster ended up hanging upside down off a 20 story balcony by real Gangstas, the other turned into a fashion mogul, with the last one getting into movies and TV, playing a Policeman arresting and shooting his like minded previous persona.
In ending, Real Time for Serious Gun crimes is the only alternative, regardless of your class or upbringing. Kissy Face, Diversity and Understanding won't work, never has, never will. Scared straight jail time will, in solitatry confinement, after all if Kids are impressed by Violent Rap Videos, they'll certainly be impressed by a dank 4 by 8 cell for a year without Mommy, Daddy and their Ghetto buddies for company. The Music Industry bears a big responsibility in all this, in a perfect world a Big Slice of the Guns and Drugs Rapper Music revenue of a Dollar or Two from each Album sale should be set aside for psychological counseling for their incarcerated Music Fans. I bet you once the Rappers and Music execs get dinged in the pocketbook, after all Money Talks and Less Bling for them will change their tune.
After all past and recent History has many fine examples of people who like Rappers brainwashed the masses from the KKK, Hitler to Saddam who all extolled a Utopia Lifestyle, a lifestyle their followers blindly followed, resulting in their arrest, detention, death and demise of their society. Kids should not be treated any different and their leaders should be held accountable , much like their predecessors.
If anyone wants to see how well Canada's youth laws are working, check out Statistic's Canada's latest data on gun crimes among youths.
They're skyrocketing.
According to StatsCan, the number of youths aged 12 to 17 charged with a firearm-related crime jumped in 2006 for the third time in four years.
Firearm-related offences among youth soared a staggering 32% from 2002 to 2006.
Shouldn't this be setting off alarm bells for the folks in our justice system?
The one-third increase, according to StatsCan, is attributed largely to an increase in armed robberies.
You know, teenagers holding up convenience stores and gas bars with hand guns and sawed-off shotguns?
Coincidentally -- or maybe not so coincidentally -- the four years covers the period following the implementation of the Youth Criminal Justice Act in 2003.
What the stats show is the YCJA, at least where gun crimes are concerned, is not working.
Sure, overall youth crime has been on the decline. But certain specific youth crimes -- including some of the most serious ones out there such as firearm-related offences -- are soaring.
According to Statistics Canada, youth crime fell 6% in 2005. That's the figure the criminologists like to use when they tell us the media exaggerates crime.
But if you look at some of the more serious crimes, the opposite is true.
For example, in 2005, youth homicides were up 47%, attempted murder jumped 11%, aggravated assault was up 6% and robbery jumped 9% that year.
Firearm-related crimes among youth, including armed robbery, is one of the most egregious crimes out there.
And when that category of crime jumps at the rate it has -- over four years -- you can't ignore it. It's not a statistical blip.
Human nature
Does the extreme leniency of the YCJA, which emphasizes non-jail time even for violent offenders, have anything to do with it?
You can't prove it either way.
But human nature is such that when kids know they can rob a gas bar with a firearm and get a slap on the wrist for it, there's little to discourage them from carrying out the crime.
You don't need a social work degree or a PhD in criminology to know that. It's common sense.
Unfortunately, common sense sometimes gets hijacked by social work gobbledegook and society loses sight of those very basic human traits.
These kids aren't stupid. They talk among themselves. And they know very well they can dupe the adults in the justice system, feign remorse and capitalize on the system's well-meaning -- but grossly misguided -- philosophy that young, violent offenders should be coddled rather than held accountable for their crimes.
It's common knowledge.
My question is, what kind of data do justice officials need to be convinced the status quo is not working?
Do firearm-related offences among youth have to jump 50%? How about 75%? Do they have to double in four years?
What's the magic number?
I'd sure like to know.
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February 21, 2008 at 06:37 am by Barry Artiste, 1118 views, 39 comments
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at 10:15 on February 21st, 2008
"It really doesn't require a degree in Rocket Science to figure out why
Kid Crime is Skyrocketing, and it certainly doesn't require a Doctorate
degree in Brain Surgery to figure out who is to blame."
Barry, don't get me wrong, you are an amazing force for the Rule of Law, but this flippant statement is, well, presumptuous and patently false.
I think the societal causes of crime, be it 'kid'crime or any other kind are poorly understood at best, even by those who study such social issues as experts. If they were so easily understood then they would be just as easily dealt with at the root of the cause rather than the ineffective system we have of more arrests, convictions, and incarceration.
Society has been studying the roots of crime as long as there has been society and the shear complexity of the causality, from the individual to the level of societal interaction makes it impossible, so far, to draw the clear cut conclusions embodied in your statement.
Better more questions than just quick pat answers that do not serve to deal with the roots of such criminal behavior within the context of this society.
at 10:17 on February 21st, 2008
Well Moon your statement "I think the societal causes of crime, be it 'kid'crime or any other
kind are poorly understood at best, even by those who study such social
issues as experts." Deserves a well thought out retort my friend. Rappers who tell their followers about living in the hood is so friggin "Ghettofabulous" and Jenny from the Block, downhome we jus "Po folk like you", doesn't wash, as does your statement of kids poorly misunderstood. First of all Kids from poor neighbourhoods much like their Rapper Idols know Ghetto isnt fabulous, otherwise Famous Rappers would still be living 6 to a room back in the hood,which we all know they aren't,Rappers live the fabulous wealthy life in Mansions far removed from their Ghettos. Rappers giving Kids a way out of the Ghetto by Rappers giving them false hope illusions of the fast life, quick rich schemes, Guns,Drugs, and all Babes are Ho's to be had at the snap of the finger mentality leaves no room for misinterpretation by anyone,let alone kids.
No poorly misunderstood issues here Moon, just misguided society, and a idiotic entertainment industry that awards 5 Grammys to a long time addicted Crack Singer Amy Whinehouse,whilst another Artist Rhianna, a clean living soul is robbed of grammy's for her belief that clean living and music is better. You tell me where is the misunderstood justice in that? That my friend is society that needs to get back to moral values lost in music. Kids know right from wrong from a very early age, it is just some use their youth to get away with it, knowing minors have an easy cakewalk. Kids grow up to be adults, who still retain their childhood Id, not progressing to the Ego stage and certainly never reaching even a portion of the Superego stage. All these kids, now adults want is what others have, with nary a thought of working for it. I still say Jail em in solitary with counseling, until the brainwashing leaves them, failure to do so will result in adults with a childs Id Mentality.
at 12:01 on February 21st, 2008
This is where you and I diverge on this issue. Your solution for eveything that is failing in our society is "jail 'em in solitary with counseling.." Thank goodness you're not in charge!
You must have been a cop. The typical cop solution to all problems comes with dealing with them after the fact. Arrest, convict and incarcerate! That'll solve the problem! Has it worked so far? Of course not! That methodology has never worked and never will. It is nothing more than a bandaid applied to a little understood wound, which will never heal if we don't look for what caused the wound.
What is the definition of insanity? Doing something over and over again the same way and expecting new results.
Do you have any kids Barry? If these kids were your kids would you be just trotting out these quick and in my opinion counter-productive 'solutions'? Wouldn't you maybe be asking a lot of questions about yourself as a parent, the public school system, the non-existant structures to support kids in a society that is a million times more complex than the one in which we grew up?
Might not it be useful to engage young people in this discussion? To ask them a lot of questions without being smug grown-up know-it-alls?
We cannot impose what we consider to be solutions on our young, specially ones that won't work. Let's face it, we're gonna die and they are going to have to live with what we left them, and just taking a brief look at that, if I was a kid today I would be really pissed with "grown-ups" and would have absolutely no respect for their opinions or institutions, and once they passed on we could wipe the slate clean of their crap and start again, if they have left us with enough time to save ourselves from their foolishness.
at 13:42 on February 21st, 2008
Thanks for the comments Moon, now you know me, never one to walk away from contraversymy friend.
First of allPolice only arrest, convictions are up to lienient revolving door judges,no matter how many we arrest, judges let em walk.
As for Kids, I have three, two daughters, one a cop, one a surgical nurse,I have one teen boy, Brendan who will be entering RCMP training this year. All my kids are level headed, My boy Brendan has always been heavily into Rap, and Hip Hop, my one daughter Tara (The Cop) in the late 1980s was into Metallica, AC/DC, and other easy listening rock and roll bands, my other daughter Karine, the Nurse, liked more Big Hair and New Wave Montreal scene more so. Believe me Moon even as children they had no illusions between fantasy and reality when it came to music and culture,my two girls all graduated University,married with kids of their own and now,my daugther Tara has a teen of her own.
So in ending, even I as a Kid of 5, knew Batman didn't exist, age 8 Dirty Harry wasn't real and at age 10 neither were the car chases, at age 12, I certainly knew wrestling was fake as well as my hero at the time Jimi Hendrix, I knew full well at 13 his lifestyle was gonna end in death, then found Clapton was God, and at age 15 knew Nixon was a crook. Turns out everything I knew as a young child was true, certainly cannot be too hard for other kids to figure that little slice of reality out. As for incarcerate, Hell Yeah, and incarcerate the Judges who release them back into society to commit crimes again.
at 14:16 on February 21st, 2008
Thanks Barry,
You must have been a great parent as your kids all seem to have walked closely to the straight and narrow. Not all kids are that lucky my friend, and I know this from personal experience, and from volunteering with street kids, some of them so tough that it made my teeth ache.
I've heard this position so many times before. This is how it was for me, this is how it is for my kids, and this is how it should be for the rest of those whelps out there, and if it isn't jail 'em!
I am not saying incarceration is bad in every case. I am saying that we need a lot more than that to cut off the multiple heads of this hydra of crime in our society.
I am also saying that catching kids at their first or even second offense, depending on the severity and victimology of the crime, and diverting them away from any serious time, and I don't mean a couple of good weeks of SCAREY time in a lock-up isn't a good lesson, will be a better solution, than big time.
Send a young stupid kid to the kind of prisons we have and you get a seasoned career criminal back when all is said and done.
Your totalitarian outlook doesn't serve you well. Anyone who doesn't do law the way you think law should be done should be locked up. Once again, thank goodness you're not in charge.
And yes I am that 'Bleeding heart liberal!' said like an expletive that must come out of your mouth when you read my stuff sometimes. And you are the "Pig-headed, backward looking conservative!" expletive that I use sometimes.
Thus is the dynamic in this great land! :D
at 17:45 on February 21st, 2008
Thanks for the comments Moon, hahaha,. True Prison may not be for all, but surely a second offence shows they haven't learned Diddly Joe Squat. Then when they become adults they get worse, as you meet and greet troubled youth, I do commend you for helping them , I on the other hand in my career have met the victims, and even today I still run into them. Parents whose kid was bullied and he took a shotgun to his face in the lower mainland.
I arrived on scene to take samples, brain samples, this kid was 14 a sea cadet, and the happy family photos belied the kids pain. I cannot tell you how many times, I have to stress out doing this, then go home and hug my kid.
As well we have not incarcerated youth in almost two and a half decades because people thought it cruel, well losing a child to drugs or violence is just as cruel. Putting Kids into a general population doesn't work, hence solitary confinement, which the only lessons they get are what the corrections give them.
True I am blessed with good kids,it was not friggin easy, it was really, really hard, especially being a single parent to boot when they were young. Moon, let me tell you my friend, I gave them a no nonsense conservative upbringing, and I know parents today who gave their kids a bleeding heart Liberal upbringing as you so adequately state. Some of these kids grew up great, but a lot of them lack discipline, feel the world owes them a living, and the result is they cannot make it in the real world, yet alone hold a job. My childhood friends who went all liberal in their kids upbringing, now have their kids living at their home in the 30's some of them professional students who cannot it seems deal with society.
Case in point take your APC protestors who just did a criminal act in masks and did a fine paint job when they stormed violently on the BC Premiers place today, that my friend is a Bleeding Heart Liberal upbringing if I ever saw one. Why, because if it were a conservative upbringing we would not have this conversation. If it were me in charge, those APC's would be looking at a few months hard labour, I am sure that would cure them of their free time perstering others. Liberals have to get rid of the Me, Me, Me, Free, Free, Free, mentality and work for a living. Many I have met feel the world owes them a living and a free house, as the APC recently stated in the media. Now how friggin twisted is that? Are you gonna pay for it? In ending, I too have been called to spend time in Blood alley, and the surrounding hotels, and rooming house, why? Well I am sure you can figure out why. As for people who walk to talk, well I guess we both are, the only difference, I doubt in your life, you have ever been shot at, or have someone jam a gun in your face late at night. Certainly makes a difference on ones perspective about crime and punishment. You gotta think of the victims my friend, cause in BC it seems the courts and our society don't, unless they become one.
As for referring me as Pig Headed, is their any other way, M-M-M- Pork.........
at 09:06 on February 22nd, 2008
Didn't know you were a single parent. Good work yo! As the kids would say!
Here's the short story version: Came from broken home, abusive father, depressed mother, lived on the street freezing starving, sold pot and rehashed and begged for a living, got caught with pot, went to court and ran into a firm but lenient judge who looked at my life within the context of it all, and against the will of the RCMP who thought pot was heroin in those days and wanted me jailed for 10 years, didn't send me to prison. Got a great Probation Officer and he put his heart and soul into me, with the judge checking in on me regularly.
They saved my life. Absolutely no doubt. If I had been sent to the Pen I would have either killed myself or become a career criminal. I got myself together, and promised myself I would never go to jail again. When I left Winnipeg I tracked down the judge, called him, and thanked him for my life. My PO had committed suicide by then.
Along the way I was shot, had handguns shoved into my ribs by drug dealers, was beaten, threatened with death and had to flee, poisoned with bad drugs, watched 2 Winnipeg Police constables beat an undercover reporter almost to death, had friends just vanish, watched police beat and abuse countless street kids for no reason other than they were there, and saw many things in life that you can't imagine.
The judge and system gave me a hand-up, not a hand-out or a slam down. Lucky for me, and lucky for all those I would have screwed with if I had been sent to jail and made very angry. I am not a nice person when I get angry!
I have been on both sides of this issue and I do believe that gives me some perspective.
at 09:34 on February 21st, 2008
It's very simple...put crap into your brain, crap comes out of your brain.
Much of rap should be called out for its peddling of evil. Certainly there are plenty of roots into other evil grounds...that doesn't mean we should simply give rap a pat on the behind and send it off on its merry way...at least for those that listen to their conscience.
at 10:28 on February 21st, 2008
Not that simple Ruski. If it was we'd be done with it.
What is the why of the "crap" that the kids are putting in? What are the causes of the street culture that brings us gangsta rap? Why does it exist if it does not fulfill some social need for a huge percentage of young people? If those young people had other opportunities for creativity would they be participating in crime or more productive pursuits? Have we isolated and marginalized large portions of our youth population? Why have we done so? How have we done so? Are we providing all our kids with ample opportunities and options? Have we lost our ability to communicate with younger people? Do we even care if their needs and aspirations diverge wholesale from ours?
Could it be that these behaviors by our young people are just symtoms of deeper challeges within our societies, the tip of the iceberg so to speak?
There are many professionals asking these questions and others relevant to this discussion who are far better equiped to begin the process of providing us some answers than you, me, or Barry.
The discussion is great. The "It's very simple...put crap into your brain, crap comes out of your brain." type of statements are of no value whatsoever. In fact this kind of oversimplification by adults is, in my opinion, one of the root causes of the problem.
You may not have kids but I have two grown ones and I know for a fact that their behaviors, desires, dreams, tastes, and view of our adult world are far from as simple as these sweeping generalities. In fact they have great disdain for many adults because of these dismissive adult opinions. They also like Hip-Hop and Rap and are law abiding productive citizens at the same time. This would indicate to me again that there are levels of causal complexity that we are missing.
at 10:59 on February 21st, 2008
Good...that's settled... let's break down and analyze crap until we are blue in the face. I, for one, am not afraid to say something is bad, if it's bad....to children, to society, to anyone. If that appears self righteous, so be it. We don't need a team of professional anythings to declare violent rap as the glorification of violence. Whether someone can enjoy rap without repurcussion is not my desire to ascertain.
at 11:09 on February 21st, 2008
Well golly gosh! I guess I can't argue with that deep, well thought out "logic".
at 10:26 on February 21st, 2008
Thanks Moon and Ruski for your comments, both are very much appreciated.
In response to your comments Ruski, "giving rap a pat on the behind and send it off on its merry way also pertains to lifestyle as well. R&B singer and crack addict Amy Whinehouse whose drug addicted trials and tribulations have been widespread in the media, on Grammy Night, Gob Smacked Rappers and many other Singers were stunned, though not surprised when shown the entertainment and music industry "Reward Bad Behaviour". AmyWhinehouse recieving 5 Grammys certainly shows the world were the rot lies andwill most certainly pave the way for any Teen who wishes to emulate success like Whinehouse did, with a Crackpipe,How Pretty!!
at 10:33 on February 21st, 2008
Thanks Barry. It is also wise to look at Amy's background and the familial and social milieu in which she was formed.
at 10:38 on February 21st, 2008
Got into the discussion and forgot this part. :D
at 11:01 on February 21st, 2008
Oh, I forgot...it must be that one man's violent rap lyrics are another man's beautiful love song.
at 11:10 on February 21st, 2008
I think that the worst thing to happen to hip-hop culture was the co-opting of gangsta rap. NWA's seminal Straight Outta Compton was actually a great political album, but it became mega-successful, and the suits moved in. Inner-city culture was re-interpreted and, most insidiously, sanitized for easier marketing. The dominant themes of growing up as part of an underprivileged minority were overshadowed by lyrics conveying the blinkered search for material gain: the root system of the genre was ignored. Kids now have an aural world of violence without consequence, whereas gangsta rap's beginnings had far more going on. A comparison of the Geto Boys' Mind Playing Tricks on Me and, well, anything by 50 Cent will show what I mean!
at 11:31 on February 21st, 2008
Hear, hear! Thanks for bringing this perspective Jordan.
at 17:51 on February 21st, 2008
Of course, you are correct Jordan, Yes the suits moved in and changed it, and the Rappers laughed all the way to the bank and got into Girls gone Wild videos and other pursuits, peeing on little girls etc, and one rapper bumping and grinding on stage at a Gwen stefani concert with I believe a 13 year old girl. Certainly a tasteful performance in their mind, but something I believe those suits would not have approved.Everyone is responsible for their Actions Jordan. I am sure those suits didnt put a gun to a rappers head, but money which they happily took without question about their Craft or musical integrity.
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Nicole Billardat 13:31 on February 21st, 2008
Music influence aside, this is also about the skyrocketing 'kid crime'... anyone want to include other possible causes of this?
- Teachers not able to guide a child's time in class due to distractions in the form of parentally-advocated cell phones, (which, while meant to icrease security for the child, are used for text/photo/internet messaging during class) or ipods, which the teachers are not allowed to confiscate for the term of the class. Teachers are basically hand-tied when it comes to discipline now.
- Parents giving in to every whim and whine of a adolescent child because they are scared of being 'stood up to' or 'called out' as being restrictive or 'bad parents'.
I'm barely out of my twenties and I'm finding myself appalled at the behaviour and, well, balls most kids have these days. It takes both nature and nurture to build a child that will hold a gun to another living creature. Music may plant an idea, but who planted the value system in the first place?
at 14:27 on February 21st, 2008
Hear, Hear!
You can't plant anything good these days because of all the people who insist that good is bad - so there's nobody doing any planting. That's why the kids grow wild. Not a complicated relationship, is it?
The world around us is full of negative influence - music is only a part of it. In the early 70's we were talking about how some of the T.V. families were so unrealistic - the kids didn't get into fights with their parents, they didn't yell at each other, the kids were always doing well in school. People used to say, "Monkey See, Monkey Do," and they used to ask for positive role models all around to help the kids find healthy examples to think about - but many people didn't like that (and still work to block anything objectively good.) There were (and still are) so many dummies around who said it would be better if we had more realistic families on T.V. Whenever the topic came up on a news program there was always some lunatic professor who said things like, "There have been no double-blind studies to show that bad examples on T.V. would be copied by children."
Of course there's no shortage of help whenever you ask for something mind bogglingly stupid - so we got Rosanne and The Simpsons to replace Dick Van Dyke. Immediately after The Simpsons hit the air the teachers in every school in North America complained that all the young boys were emulating Bart Simpson. In response, they were chastised by the lunatic professor community who insisted that there were no studies to support all this anecdotal evidence being provided by the teachers (as if you need a tenured position in a university to know something about kids.)
I enjoyed Rosanne and The Simpsons but I miss Dick Van Dyke and his like. I've stopped watching T.V. now but a friend told me a couple of years ago that there are some good shows available these days. Still, mostly when I visit my friends I see the kids into Family Guy and do-gooder vampires and other stuff that doesn't look very encouraging to me.
By the way: I walked into a department store once and decided to see if there was any interesting music on sale. I never found out... There was a teenage girl working in that department that day. She had chosen to play a song that featured young men rapping about how much fun it is to sexually abuse young girls. I was so mad that a young girl would listen to such crap that I had to leave the store. The way I see it, that's the real problem: the kids get so used to seeing and hearing things that should offend them that they stop being offended.
Still, as Gerald Ford said, the kids are brighter than we realize and they'll work things out.
at 14:44 on February 21st, 2008
Yup.
Then there's parents that beat, imprison, starve, and physically, mentally, emotionally and psychologically torture their kids, or their spouses in front of their kids. There's incest and paedophilia that mom doesn't report because she wouldn't say anything against dad. There's one's that care more about work and the new car and never give their kids the time of day. There's ones that screw around on the spouse and steal from the company they work for. There's alcoholic and drug addicted parents, and parents who gamble their kids futures away. There's ones that tell their kids to just handle shit by themselves because they aren't tough enough to survive if they don't, and then whale on 'em if they don't get it right. There's parents that sit on welfare and complain endlessly, and expect their kids to take care of their physical and emotional needs. There's ones that belong to this or that exteme religious group and advocate hatred and rascism and violence. There's parents that feed their kids speed, and other uppers and downers from the time they are little because they just don't want to deal with an active, enquiring child.
There's a world out there where its perfectly OK to bomb millions of innocents. Like the kids can't see that the justifications for that are patent nonsense. There's a world where swinging and sex and booze and speeding and every kind of debauchery one could imagine is glorified and used by adults to sell kids ideas and products. A world where mom and dad and the adults have a wink-wink-nudge-nudge admiration for gangsters and criminals of all stripes because they are smart enough to get away with their crimes in a society where the only real crime is getting caught, and where if you do get caught the rule is use that to get rich. There's a justice system where if an adult has enough dough there is no law for that person and they can kill, steal defraud and do exactly as they please and then buy their way out of it. There's a world where cops, elected representatives, teachers, preachers, priests and other supposed responsible adults partake in criminal activity of the most vile nature on a regular basis. There's a world where corporations can kill, maim, and displace people anywhere on the globe and then just flee to another country or use money to interfere with litigation in any court in any country.
Oh yah, we'ver set such good examples, and given them such a fair and honest caring worlod to grow up into. Give me a break. We don't hold ourselves and other adults to account but we expect children to have it all worked out and to be 100% responsible. After all they should know all this stuff 'cause we told 'em, right?
Give me a break.
at 14:47 on February 21st, 2008
From what little I've seen of the world I can say with pride that, in spite of all its ills, Canada is a great country. We got this far; perhaps with God's blessing and a bit of effort we can help each other to do better.
at 14:52 on February 21st, 2008
I totally agree with you, and one of the aspects of Canada is we try to do something more than just lock'em up. We try to understand and help while we can still reach them. Is it hard? Yes. Do some re-offend? Yes.
So what? I'll take it the Canadian way anyday.
at 15:06 on February 21st, 2008
Let's work together.
Sorry, one last story:
I drove into a parking lot one night and found a gang of young boys beating an elderly gentleman near my parking space - so I called the police. The officer who interviewed me later said that they were going to arrest a drunk guy who was passing by at the time and decided to join in the fun. I said okay - but make sure you get the kid who was kicking the elderly gentleman in the head. Sorry, we won't do that. He's underage and it's very hard to get a conviction and, even if we get a conviction, there's not much of a penalty given out.
That kid crossed a line and was allowed to get away with it - no consequences. The result: He continues to cross lines until he crosses one that has consequences. By then, though, the bad habits are ingrained and it's much, much harder for guys like you and I to help. Not impossible, but not realistically likely, either.
I'm sorry but I'm in the camp that says pull out the strap when the kid crosses the line. Don't let the bad habit start in the first place. I got the strap a few times myself and I have no complaints - and I know guys who will tell you that they remember most the times when their parents did *not* smack them when they deserved it.
at 14:55 on February 21st, 2008
Check out YouTube.com, Moonwolf - you'd love some of the videos the young people make: One girl did a rap song about how offensive the rap songs are. There was a young guy who was very upset about something - he made a video saying that everybody can't be right if they contradict each other - therefore somebody has to be wrong! It's encouraging.
at 15:09 on February 21st, 2008
Hey Azer,
Once again I agree. I love what kids are up to today even if I don't agree with it all or understand it all. They are, after all, the next generation and will take human foolishness to the next level, or maybe they won't. Maybe by watching how abysmally we've handled everything they'll learn.
My son is an aspiring actor/comedian, and my daughter is in child care, her religion is Wickan, and she paints and sings, and dances and dresses funny, and gets tattoos and piercings, and neither of them have a lot of time for the adult world. They put up with us and that's about it, and I love them dearly for it. They and their friends have close, calm, compassionate relationships based on open honest communication and respect and I am very encouraged.
They are simply waiting for us to get out of their way, and they have their own ideas of how the world should be and how child-rearing and the law and everything else should be. Good on 'em, I say!
I am on Youtube often and find youthful creativity endlessly pleasing.
at 17:56 on February 21st, 2008
WEll Moon, you are correct on all points, what you fail to realise this has been going on for a millenia, still it is no excuse for children to grab a gun and go on thrill crimes emulating their idols who do it in the pretend world of music video;
at 09:31 on February 22nd, 2008
I agree, so let's stop the flow of guns from the USA. But oh no, we don't want to get tough with our largest trading partner do we! Like it or not there is a clear correlation between availability and use when it comes to guns. I'd toss any American coming into the country with a firearm in his motorhome in jail for ten years with no possibility of parole, and any American caught importing illegal weapons into Canada would go away for life. I would insist that the US authorities did everything they could to stop the flow of guns to Canada on their side of the border, which by the way they do absolutely nothing at all about, and if they didn't I'd cut off the electricity, water, oil, wood, minerals, natural gas and everything else they need from us to survive until they complied.
Then, let's look at what the circumstances are for kids that put them in a place where there are guns. What are the circumstances that form these kids? Kids aren't the brightest bulbs in the box anyway and brain scientists confirm that their ability to make rational decisions is extremely compromised. One trigger pull and that's it! Five years later those same kids would say, " I can't believe I did that and I am SO sorry!" if we handle it right. If we don't then there is just an ever widening field of casualties.
That being said there are also real, cold killers that are young. The trick is to learn to distinguish between young psychopaths and emotionally mixed up and misdirected children and then to treat each category appropriately.
at 13:52 on February 21st, 2008
Thanks for bringing up another valid point Nicole, mamby , pamby, weenie tots who rule society state corporal punishment is cruel and teachers should not discipline kids with the strap. I am sure Moon can remember when in school and acting up, that the strap across the hands certainly put you in your place quick. We lost that in our previous Hippy friggin society. Bring back Corporal punishment, and you will rid the term ADD or ADHD disorders in kids, ground the little peckerwoods for transgressions, no tv, no treats, no nothing, just tough love. I believe all kids are basically good, they just make really bad choices, a weekend or a month or two in solitary confinement in jail can turn ones life around and fast.
Thanks again everyone for your comments.
As for AMY whiinehouse, she had a pretty average upbringing, lower middle class family, but her weak willed attitude and Rebel without a friggin Clue lifestyle of Crack got her into the mess, not her parents, her and her alone, and now her Hubby who Overdosed the other day in prison, you see if he were in solitary confinement, we wouldnt be having this conversation, kind of hard to get drugs in solitary, I think I have made my point to the letter . again thanks everyone for your comments, though I may not agree with some, I truly appreciate each one of them.
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Nicole Billardat 14:09 on February 21st, 2008
wow, I just meant that teachers should be able to take the ipods and cell phones until class is over, and was thinking about the days when I got a good verbal lashing for chewing gum or wearing a ball-cap... parents used to stand with a certain amount of 'father knows best', but now it's more like 'father holds the funds until I reach majority'. I can't say I'd go as far as physical punishment. Point taken, though. :o)