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Decorated Seffner Soldier Dies in Afghanistan
Decorated Seffner Soldier Dies in Afghanistan Sgt. 1st Class Jason J. Fabrizi
Sgt. 1st Class Jason John Fabrizi was supporting Operation Enduring Freedom in the Konar province Tuesday when his mounted patrol was attacked with rocket-propelled grenades and small arms fire.
In a phone call from Chillicothe, Mo., Fabrizi's stepfather, Timothy Hess, said this was Fabrizi's fourth tour of duty.
"He went to Iraq three times before," said Hess, who is a retired Marine gunnery sergeant. "He was a hero in the Army. He had a chest full of medals."
Fabrizi was assigned to the 3rd Squadron, 61st Cavalry Regiment, 4th Brigade Combat Team, 4th Infantry Division, Fort Carson, Colo. The Department of Defense said he had earned a Purple Heart, two Army Commendation Medals, two Bronze Stars and more than a dozen other honors during his service.
His mother, Mary Hess, is also a retired Marine gunnery sergeant, so his decision to join the military was no surprise.
"We lived all over for a time," Timothy Hess said. "But we moved to Seffner in 1993, and Jason went to middle school and high school there."
Hess said his stepson enlisted two or three days after he graduated from Armwood High in 1998 and loved what he did. The former high school wrestler also made great friends in the service, he said.
"I imagine his men are taking it really hard," Hess said. "They really loved him, and he would have done anything for them."
But more than anything Fabrizi love his family.
When he married his first wife, Teri Anderson, in 1999, he had his grandfather, the Rev. George Hess, come down from Missouri to perform the ceremony, according to Hillsborough County records.
The couple had two sons, Jason Allen and Tyler, who are 9 and 6, respectively. Hess said the boys stayed in Riverview with their mother after a 2006 divorce but remained close to their father. Hess says that before Fabrizi deployed in June, he traveled to the Florida Keys with his current wife and youngest son to visit his mother. He was met there by his brother, Jarrod Hess of Valrico, and his-ex wife and sons.
Army officers in Valrico, the Florida Keys, Colorado and Missouri went to the family's homes to deliver the news of his death.
Anderson said her daughter brought the officers to her house because the boys were with her so they could deliver the news.
"Jason (Allen) took it the hardest because he understood fully what had happened," she said. "Tyler asked the soldiers if his dad had been shot or blown up like Ryan (his step father)."
Anderson said her daughter Teri's second husband was also in the military and was killed in Iraq in 2007, so the boys have now lost both their father and stepfather to the war.
"We were devastated to hear the news (about Fabrizi)," she said. "We loved him very much."
I don't know Sgt.1st Class Jason J. Fabrizi personally . . . but, for some reason, I feel as though I do. And I don't know why I focused on Sgt. Fabrizi for this story . . .perhaps it's just because he lived close by to me and my family.
I grew up with alot of guys, in the '60s, that served in Vietnam. Virtually all them were "grunts" that served in combat. Fortunately most of them came back home, thank goodness, but a few of them didn't.The ones that came back home were not the same people that I knew them to be for all the years that I grew up with them. And the ones that were KIA had a closed-coffin funeral service. I often wonder if it was, in fact, their KIA remains that many, from my home town, prayed and offered condolences over.
I don't have any hope, confidence, or faith in NATO's current excursion into Afghanistan. I'm starting to get the same sick feeling that I had in regard to Vietnam.
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at 18:07 on July 19th, 2009
Rory thanks for this story. It is the Brotherhood of Arms that made you write this story. Us grunts grief every death of a soldier.
I hope all of them come home safe. None of them will be who they were before they left.
at 18:10 on July 19th, 2009
Link to Sergeant 1st Class Jason J. Fabrizi
at 07:04 on July 21st, 2009
Thank you for sharing my cousins story; it has ended far too soon. My Aunt’s only biological child died July 14, 2009 in <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 />Afghanistan. My cousin Jason Fabrizi, we lovingly called him Jay Bird. He is someone’s husband, father, son, grandson, brother, nephew & beloved cousin & he died defending the ideals of this country. He was a magnificent & extraordinary human being, well beyond any words I could write. He will be buried soon near our Grandmother Donna Casey here in Cleveland Ohio; where he was born. He leaves behind a huge family who loved him & who couldn’t be more proud of the man he had become. He also leaves his wife, Kristy, 3 sons & a baby due in just a few weeks. Jason was a light in our family. He was born, needing surgery at 4 days old. My grandparents took him to therapy & worked with him while his mother, a Marine, was out of the country. My Grandmother worked with him until there were no signs of disability or delay. He graduated high school in Florida & joined the Army a few days later. He had earned a Purple Heart, two Army Commendation Medals, two Bronze Stars and more than a dozen other honors during his service. He became Sergeant 1st class. He was not only a soldier but a magnificent human being, whose life enriched the lives of so many other people. I understand, other soldiers are dying & other families are being permanently damaged also, but this pain is almost unbarable for my family. As the mother & sister of 2 other Army Veteran’s I can not even begin to grasp the grief my Aunt Mary must be feeling at the lost of her son. Thank you for remember my cousin & our family durring this awful time. Jason is gone but will NEVER be forgotten.
at 16:12 on July 23rd, 2009
Tiffany Rossman: The thanks go entirely to your cousin, Jason, and those like him that served! Thank you for your heartfelt reminder that Jason was a real person that left behind a real family that loved him. There's alot of us out here whose hearts break everytime we hear of another soldier paying the ultimate price in Afghanistan . . . and we still haven't gotten used to it and probably never will. In spite of our criticism of the U.S. Government's policy, as it pertains to the war in Afghanistan, we totally and completely honor and support our troops and their families. God Bless Jason . . . .
at 11:36 on September 4th, 2009
I just found out about Jason's death this week as it was listed in the VFW magazine. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to his family. I had the honor of serving with Jason on his second tour of Iraq. We were great friends and fellow NCO's in the same squad until I got out on disability. He went above and beyond the call of duty to help me out personally many times and he is the very definition of the word "soldier" I have a huge hole in my heart as I have lost another brother. I'm just sorry I didn't know sooner so that I could have attended the funeral to say goodby to my fellow soldier and friend. He will be missed and never forgotten.