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Faulkner's disappearance renews debate on 'Ex-Gay' Therapy
The last person to have heard from Faulkner was Travis Swanson, a man who claims to be his boyfriend. That was on June 15, before Faulkner’s family appears to have intervened in their son’s relationship.
His mother Debra told FOX News Bryce is "fine" and that stories to the contrary are "not true." A statement by Bryce, released through a family representative, denied coercion on the part of his family.
Rev. Brett Harris, a pastor who has led a Web-based effort to get in touch with Faulkner, suspects otherwise. He has continued his effort despite receiving nearly 20 death threats from the site’s visitors and a lawsuit threat from the Faulkner family.
"It would be simple for [Bryce] to get on a webcam and say ’I don’t want to be gay anymore, I went to this camp on my own volition.’ If he does that, God bless him and I’ll take the site down," Harris told EDGE. "But there is no information coming from Bryce himself. This instantaneous conversion story that Debra is putting out there is baloney. She bullied and brow-beat him."
"[Bryce]’d lose everything including the family’s love if he continued the relationship," Harris continued. "The loss of love is a very powerful thing, especially the loss of the love of your family. The fear of that happening is a great motivator to keep someone in a conversion therapy program."
Fear, often in combination with financial dependence, continues to play a major role in the decisions of some young gay men to enter into ex-gay programs, including those offered by national groups like Exodus International and Love in Action, according to gay and psychiatric observers opposed to their practices.
These companies sponsor hundreds of programs around the nation which vary greatly from one-on-one therapy sessions to intensive group live-in programs.
Wayne Besen, executive director of Truth Wins Out, an organization whose mission is to expose the "ex-gay industry," argues programs like Exodus deliberately market their programs to religious parents of recently out gay children. He was not surprised by the Faulkner case.
"These groups understand very well that they’re marketing to desperate, vulnerable people who are looking for a lifeline. They tell [parents] what they want to hear, and when they hear those promises, they write the checks," Besen shared.
"The people who run these programs aren’t qualified to give the psychological advice they’re providing. They’re causing great harm and avoid accountability at all costs. We don’t know what their failure rate is, but we know from survivors that they’re not doing so well in terms of success."
The article continues with Coerced Into a Labyrinth. It highlights the people interviewed for this story. "Their stories reinforce reports from the overwhelming majority of Western mainstream psychological and psychiatric organizations that frown upon gay therapy programs."
To support the campaign to find Bryce Faulkner, visit savebryce.ergonomicalministries.org
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at 19:51 on August 16th, 2009
I wonder what the cops would think of a rescue mission? (I know it would end up being called something worse-:)
at 22:24 on August 16th, 2009
What ever happens the guy will still be gay, its all in the genes and nothing to do with mind over matter.. gay is gay and no miracle cure no prayer nothing spiritual to change the fact.
at 23:12 on August 16th, 2009
I had no idea that these types of organizations were out there. This is disturbing.
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Lulu Flan (not verified)at 07:59 on August 17th, 2009
Let me say something right now.Being gay is a choice.It has nothing to do with genes or being born with it.Thats like trying to say a drug-addict or a murderer is born that way.I am a christian and i believe that we all are born with a sin nature,but it doesn't mean we go and do everything we get tempted to do.And Bryce is doing whats right.Hes falling back on our God.Being gay is wrong,its a sin.and his parents dont hate him because he feels the urge to sin,they hate the sin but not the sinner,as ive said in other comments before.i think this family is going through enough without having as of you believing everything that comes out on the internet.If you believe all of that,then believe this,God is the center of Bryce's world and hes trying to insure that it stays that way.This family is amazing and Bryce is lucky he has parents who have stood beside him through all of this.Just imagine how bad all of you make them feel when you say those mean things about them and you dont even know the truth.Thats all im gonna say.God Bless
at 08:17 on August 17th, 2009
Organizations like this that prey on the fears of family members are deplorable, and they would not exist or eventually would not have a market if parents would accept their children for who they are and support them in what ever life path they choose for themselves.
at 08:58 on August 17th, 2009
It's important to keep exposing these bigoted groups for what they are. I'm no expert about homosexual behavior, I just know that I didn't choose to be heterosexual. I just was. One day after going along for years thinking that boys were icky, I started thinking some of them were cute.
at 09:22 on August 17th, 2009
Lulu Flan, Did you wake up one day and say "I'm gona be a straight person" ? I doubt it.
I didn't wake up one day & decide to be gay, I just am.
2'nd "it's un-natural" Is a LIE. If it wasn't natural, then why do some animals couple with the same sex? (some birds do, dolphins ect.)
"just imagine how bad all of you make them feel when you say those mean things about them and you dont even know the truth"
Exactly my point Lulu.. Know the truth before you speak.