Fiance of Missing Shantina Smiley Plans April Memorial Service

by Susan Marie Kovalinsky | April 1, 2010 at 10:43 am
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Fiance Robb Simmons plans memorial service in Brinnon April 17; 

 Still maintains slim hope that missing Washington woman , 29,   may be found alive 

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While  holding out slim hope that the missing Silverdale , WA mother is still alive,  Shantina Smiley's fiance Robb Simmons is planning a memorial service with friends and relatives this month to honor her memory.  

 Smiley's eight year old son Azriel Carver's remains were found on Fox Island in March. 

The service will take place this April 17 in Brinnon,  he has told area press.  

Law Enforcement officials in Thurston County  say they have no further leads in the case.  

They are open to possibilities, but are working on the assumption that Smiley and her child were parked in the van  at low tide along the shore,  fell asleep,  and  were later surprised and swept away in the high tide while attempting to exit the vehicle. 

  This was confirmed by Lt. Chris Mealy, spokesman for the investigation headed by Thurston County's Sheriff's Office.   

No leads,  but questions remain for family

Smiley,  29,  went missing on March 13,  along with her eight year old son ,  Azriel Carver,  when the two embarked on a road trip to visit family for an overnight stay  in the  Castlerock area.  

 Smiley became lost in the Olympia area,  between her Silverdale home and Castlerock. 

County officials had called the disappearance of the pair "highly suspicious".  

 Her partly submerged minivan was found on the shore of Olympia in Puget Sound on March 14,  and the child's remains were found washed ashore on March 18 on Fox Island, some 16 nautical miles from the site where the van was found.  

An autopsy ruled that the boy had died of accidental drowning.  The 29 year old mother's body never surfaced, and she remains missing, though presumed deceased.  

“At this point I still have all the hope in the world that she will turn up alive, I cannot do anything else,” Smiley’s fiance Robb Simmons, wrote in an e-mail to the Kitsap Sun.

But he said it was also appropriate to hold a service.

“The 17th will have been over 30 days, and if she has passed on, then that just seems that it would be the right thing to do,” Simmons wrote.

A prior service was held for eight year old Azriel in Brinnon,  on the afternoon of March 24,  at the Community Church. 

The disappearance of Smiley and Carver had captured national media attention,  especially when reports surfaced that she was a relapsed alcoholic,  and surveillance footage showed her buying a 1.5 L bottle of wine.  

The bottle, half-empty, later washed ashore, along with the child's ball and asthma inhaler, and some mismatched shoes.  

Reports surfaced that Child Protective Services had investigated Smiley and a live in boyfriend in past incidents.  

Smiley's family said she had returned to college, obtained honors and medical coding work, and was preparing to be a Cub Scout leader and wife.  They have no idea why her movements became erratic and confused on the road trip.  

Anyone with information can call the Thurston County Sheriff’s Office at (360) 786-5530

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Jesamyn

These sort of occurrences are always intriguing to the outsider while bringing heartbreak to families and friends. It is easy to say we have all become way too sceptical and suspicious with all the scenarios and movie plots we are subjected to all our lives but should not immediately cast the first stone at the boyfriend and allow the police to do what they do best. Whatever, it is sad and yet another two young lives full of promise wasted. My feelings are with all concerned and it was good of her boyfriend to respect them in this way, I truly hope he IS innocent of any part of their deaths.Thanks again Susan Marie, as in Australia we do not always hear these human interest events.

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LCoastMom

Jesamyn, you are right we should not be so suspicious, the problem with that is over and over we have held out hope for a miracle, only to find a loved one in-deed has done the unthinkable. Usually for no sane reason for us to even understand. 

Absolutely Law Enforcement must do their job, I am with you in hopes that this was a tragic accident, or Shantina is hiding or lost after a night of confusion left her without her son - I truly hope for their loved ones left behind, that she is found and all doubt is lifted from the innocent. To spend your life with such a loss is indescribable,  to live your life with such a loss and an undeserved cloud suspicion, would be torture to the  devastation.  

No one on this world should be casting stones, we can only assume one who would do so will not be happy, when they are returned. 

Holy Father, care for Azriel - as the perfect light he is. And guide those left behind to the answers we seek - regardless if they are the answers we would want.


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Susan Marie Kovalinsky

Thank you, LCoast Mom

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Lora Shinkle

Robb, I am so so sorry about the loss of Shantina. I knew her as a very young girl. I went with her brother Travis's dad Chuck for awhile. She came to my mind about 2 weeks before this terrible tragedy. She grew up to be such a beautiful young lady. Everyday I check to see if she has been found and wish for her safe return. I see from the pictures she is wonderful mom and a bright spot in this world.... I haven't given up hope though. I know Chuck has passed is Travis still in the area?? Please tell him I am keeping him in my thoughts as well. No words to help you through this.....Shantina ........ waiting for you to come home sweet girl Lora

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Diana Nassaney

Dear Robb, family, and friends,      I have been following every developing report on this sad event. My heart goes out to Robb and everyone because I have seen the pain in their faces and the overwhelming shock they are experiencing. This situation is beyond belief and as it should never have happened to such a nice person and her son. I still feel their presence here on earth however because she was a giving person as was her son...so their memories will be eternal as I and we continue to live our lives and wish they were here with us...they both deserved better and it is so hard to let go of their spirit...so I will grieve along with everyone else and nurture their spirits as they lived so humbly and peacefully on this earth and know they are wishing that we do that for them and for Robb and the family.

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