Gay Adoption

Though I am not exactly sure what point you're trying to make Ray Songtree, I feel like you're lumping up every homosexual person into a "I'm confused about my life" category. Yes, our society is gender-polarizing, but what does this have to do with a homosexual couple adopting - it's rather hasty to assume that these adopted children will be raised in a gender-neutral environment, or in one where our conventional definitions of "male" and "female" will be challenged. You said "Feminine doesn't equal masculine.  It doesn't matter how your try to spell it" - I agree with what you're saying in essence, but this point doesn't really mean anything; a man is a man whether he is masculine or feminine, and the same applies to women. I personally find "Some parents can offer their adopted kids life long confusion and zero adult model" to be a rather insulting statement even though it can apply to both hetero- and homosexual couples. I feel like you are saying that an adopted child in a homosexual household will grow up to be confused, permanently. Honestly, we're not living in the Stone Age. A child is going to be bombarded with information in various social contexts, so it's rather odd to assume that a child will be purely influenced by his/her parents - unless you're walking around with your child plugging their ears whenever something unsuitable is said, I really don't see this happening. Children are able to think for themselves, and as time passes, will be able to choose their own set of beliefs. Lastly, I find " And how confused is someone who doesn't want a biological mate, but wants to be a parent? What kind of twisted strange justification and denials will they bring that child up within?" to be absolutely absurd and crass. I am quite sure that if it were possible, homosexual individuals would opt have biological children with their partners/spouses. Considering this is not biologically possible, is it not logical to assume that a homosexual couple would choose to raise "someone else's" (and I use this term very loosely) child? Homosexuality is more than just a bunch of actions - it's about love. Homosexuals want a biological mate: someone of their own gender.