Greedy, rude adults 'fuelling teen violence'

by LotusFlower | July 11, 2008 at 12:47 pm
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Our papers are full of stories about how bad teenagers are. The truth is most of them don't do drugs, don't get pregnant, are not habitually drunk or binge drinking, don't smoke cigarettes never mind weed, yet still we demonise them. The truth is many adults set a poor example.

A culture of greed and rudeness among adults is contributing to the epidemic of knife and gun violence among teenagers, according to the government's behaviour adviser.

Sir Alan Steer, a headteacher and the head of a major government review of school behaviour policies due to report on Monday, said parents must take more responsibility for tackling violence among their teenage children. He defended comprehensive schools, which he said were regularly blamed for children's poor behaviour when they are often the only place where young people from violent communities feel safe.

On Monday, Steer will set out a series of proposals designed to put new pressure on parents to tackle their children's unruly behaviour in school, while giving them more direct contact with teachers via email and online reporting systems.

In an interview with the Guardian ahead of his report, he said that the recent killings of teenagers on London's streets was "heartbreaking".

"It's connected to a violent sub-culture. But we bear some responsibility. Sometimes as adults we don't model the behaviour we would want youngsters to follow. We live in a greedy culture, we are rude to each other in the street. Children follow that. You wonder what has gone wrong in these children's lives. Of course the kids have a responsibility, but there are questions about what's going on at home. Parents have a huge responsibility. Government doesn't bring up children, parents do."

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Wulfgar28

Not only is this true in the UK, it's also true in the US.  The single largest problem is faulty parenting and psuedo-psychiatry that says spankings are harmful.

Such pathetic nonsense that is!  Punishments have to be strong enough to make an impression.  Sitting in a corner and staring at the wall is not going to do the job when it comes to imparting a serious lesson.  Sometime you have to haul off and "tan the fanny."

Here's a thought for those who like adding more rules to the books.  Add some enforced responsibility to the parents.  Say a 12 year old tries to rob a store, the parent(s) get charged as adults for the crime along with the child getting the juvenile charge as well.  Obviously this could be adjusted somewhat depending on age.  Say a 17 year old committed the crime, then the parent may only be charged with a misdemeanor requiring some probation or community service.  The idea being that as the child gets older, he or she gains more responsibility for his/her actions.

Persoanlly, I think it's rather sad that we might need something like this to push people to raise their children properly.  But then again, I was raised in a day when you got swatted for screwing up, not "analyzed".

Stop the madness, spank 'em when they need it!

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