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Grace H | August 1, 2009 at 01:28 pm
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An eight year old girl who was raped in a shed in Phoenix, Arizona by four boys is now in foster care. The girl is from Liberia and had moved with her family to the United States when she was younger. The four boys, aged nine, ten, thirteen, and fourteen are reportedly from the same village as the victim. The younger three are charged as juveniles with sexual assault, while the fourteen year old boy is facing charges as an adult. In addition, the ten, thirteen, and fourteen-year-olds have also been charged with kidnapping.
Allegedly, her family has shunned and rejected her which led to her placemnet in the system. "Police say the girl's father told a police officer and a Child Protective Services worker that he doesn't want her anymore." (AP) This claim has been contested by a man who identified himself as two of the suspects' uncle: "We are from West Africa. We are well-behaved people. We are trained people. It is our culture to respect," Goe said." (AP)
The youths all come from a civil war torn nation that has yet to fully recover from all of the violence. There have been many stories and reports of combatants on both sides of the conflict pilaging villages and acting however they so please. Stigmas exist to this day that the victims are often at fault for their plight. Needless to say that Liberia is not the only country to experience this problem. In most places of the world this bigoted stigma exists in some form and is held as true by a marginal percentage of the populace.
In recent years the political leasdership of Liberia has worked hard to eradicate this cancerous stigma. They believe that doing so is neccesary for the country to continue healing and developing into a successful nation. Current President Ellen Johnson Sirleaf has gone so far as to publicly acknowledge that she was among those who were raped during the civil war. Such an announcement would hold the potential to ruin a young girl's life. Monica Westin, who founded World Hope International in order to promote human rights has been quoted by the Associated Press as saying: "It's always the girl's fault ... There's no gender equality."
Whether the family rejected the victim or not is a horrifying subject with an outcome yet to be determined. Even if they did not specifically come out and state their stance, the fact that the girl is now in foster care leaves plenty of room for speculation. The recovery process from this type of traumatic event is only made more tedious and complex due to feelings of isolation and abandonment. The inability to trust others and to deal with all of the guilt and shame is not aided by this girls's seperation from her family. This event will leave the girl scarred and with baggage to deal with for the rest of her life.
It is a sad occurence that in the aftermath of this all, the girl is in foster care even though her relatives are perfectly capable to take care of her. It is a situation that will leave her asking herself "Why?" and will most likely add to her shame. I hope that someone will step up when the time is right to fill the void that has been left by those closest to her. I am fortunate enough to know that no mater what I may do or what happens to me, I can always come home, where I will be greeted with open arms. I wish that this girl would have the same assurance, and it sickens me to see that that is not at all the case.
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at 05:35 on August 12th, 2009
I absolutely don't know how to respond to this. Ask anyone who knows me and they will find it hard to believe. But, I read this correctly, this child is an eight yr old girl barely older than a baby. Who apparently has been discarded by her father after being brutally violated So my question first would be to the author. When would you suggest is the right time for someone to fill the void. IMO a baby who was kidnapped and raped by 4 males, and then tossed out like last weeks garbage by her father, doesn't have a void to fill. This baby has a black hole.
Living in Phoenix, AZ as in the western portion of the United States. If her family can't emotionally support her, I completely understand the need for her to be removed from the home. But for her father to request that she be taken from her home because he no longer has any value of her. I strongly suggest the child be returned to her home, her toys, her family. While the father is removed and if it turns out the father is not open to being educsted
As a life long citizen of this country, I support the melting pot of culture we share here. But the bottom line must always be to support the laws and mores of the country people swarm to in masses. If someone makes the decision to move them self and their family to our country, they must also choose to leave their prejudices and some of the culture they were raised with, in the country they leave behind. We don't cut off the offensive hand of a thief in this country, there is no offensive hand. There is only a person who decides to act in an an offensive manner. Although I will admit when the crime is rape of a baby or young child unable to protect them self, I would certainly support the removal of the offending organ in certain instances. Like this one.
Likewise, we do not blame the victim of an assault, the victim is not offensive. The victim has been offended. Forgive me. I am trying to think this out in a manner a person raised in a certain way with certain beliefs can understand. But I'm sorry when a father rebukes his little eight yr old child, barely more than a baby. After she has been violated in this horrible manner by not one person but four!! I don't understand how this man can claim he ever loved his baby girl to begin with. She has just been assaulted all over again. If he can't learn and accept the mores of our country, let him return the the country he fled.
at 08:34 on August 14th, 2009
I feel i cannot truely answer your question as I do not have either the expertise of experience to do it justice. I would say that the answer would also vary from victim to victim as the situation warrants.
While I also understand your sentiments toward the father I slightly disagree. All of the bias, prejudice, and perspective whe have been raised with changes sometimes radically in our late teens and eary adult life. From then on most the aspects of culture such as perspective and prejudices are solidified. Changing them if possible would require extreme action. So I guess what I am saying is I would not be so quick to divide the course of action into extremes.
at 16:20 on August 27th, 2009
The father is an ass hole who needs a brain transplant
at 16:25 on August 27th, 2009
While I do slightly agree I also acknowledge the influence of his culture and backround. While I do not accept his actions on any grounds I believe they are a product of his upbringing.