Same sex partnerships and marriage

by YankeeJim | August 4, 2010 at 02:36 pm
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In the United States of America, a nation dedicated to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, all predicated on individual freedom, the Constitution trumps division by race, creed, and sex. People are born into this world along a spectrum of differences. If you believe in God, you might think of it as his/her plan to ensure that people are tolerant of one another of all kinds.

If you don’t have a religious belief, that is fine in our system because the Constitution permits people of all kind to practice their own beliefs just so it does not abuse someone else.

So, in the case of same sex partnerships and marriage, people who are born with an affinity for one another can have a relationship of their choosing and the law ensures they will be given the same rights as anyone who has a civil partnership or marriage.

Churches have no right to discriminate in these United States!

“News Alert: Judge overturns California's same-sex marriage ban
04:43 PM EDT Wednesday, August 4, 2010

A federal judge has ruled California's ban on same-sex marriages unconstitutional. U.S. District Judge Vaughn Walker overturned the voter-approved ban known as Proposition 8.”

http://link.email.washingtonpost.com/r/X109GB/UUPDBM/DIO2NE/79LPHO/Z5GJK/50/t

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anymoose

church has right by belief and gay has right of nature but, gay has no right to make church marry them against belief. gay can get  civil marriage.

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YankeeJim

I agree with that. The issue has to do with how government intended to favor marriage over civil partnership. For now, the court said no favoritism.

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t k kidwai

What happens if Gays and Lesbians establish their own church and conduct same sex marriages?Would it be an infringement on beliefs of those who are opposed to same sex marriage?Church is not a belief regulating authority.we are not living in the ages of Pope Innocent lll,the youngest Pope in history,who at the age of 39 declared"the whole world is an ecclesia".

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anymoose

any church can establish belief system, see jew, muslim christian etc. if gays want own church of gays go ahead who cares but statement was, "Churches have no right to discriminate in these United States!" all churches discriminate to some degree according to established belief system. churches regulate their own belief system not me or you. if you don't like don't join and reverse is that they should not have to accept you if you fail belief system.

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t k kidwai

@anymoose.Churches are of various denominations;a catholic won't attend a congregation at a Protestant church and vice versa.A sunni Muslim would never attend prayers at a Shia mosque.My point was that church of any denomination shouldn't oppose the sexual preferences of  gays and lesbians.No belief system is binding on any one and demanding ban on the basis of  simple religious beliefs is detestable.

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BelaynehKassaWubie

But individual rights should address group rights and both rights need to be respected at the same time. Although individuals form groups and individual rights might seem to be given priority, group right should also be respected.

Just as those married with same sex enjoy the marriage,others who dont like it suffers psychologically from hearing this marriage. Thus, for the sake of individual right, group right is violated. Which one matters most?

To have deep sleep for few hours for physical and mental rest is important. But religious people (the group) at the church and the mosque voice loud through loud speaker at the critical time individuals have deep sleep. Individuals suffer from noise pollution just for the sake of group rights. This again is not good. Both individual and group rights respect each other at the same time. I think

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t k kidwai

BKW.In my opinion this is not a matter of groups rights and individuals rights.The example you cited of use of loudspeakers at the mosque doesn't fit into frame of arguments,I am sorry to differ with you on this point.Sexual preference neither hurt group interests,nor cause any kind of incovinience to any group.The opposition to same sex marriage is flawed;it is based on religious beliefs.The society can not be governed any longer by old set of beliefs.No doubt,belief system doesn't evolve and is always stagnant.But some where grey areas have to be discovered to accomodate those who don't subscribe to established beliefs.Aberration is not sin.

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BelaynehKassaWubie

Dear t k Kidwai! My point here is about group and individual right. Same sex marriage is said to be individual right. But it affects those of others who do not like same sex marriage. The pain can be psychological on those who dont like same sex marriage, you know.

It is not only individual right that causes pain to group but also group right causes pain on individual. For example, I am from an ethnic group in a nation. I went to a place of another ethnic group in that nation. There, I applied to a government office in writing with my mother tangue requesting some service. But the Government office asked me to translate the language into that ethnic group language at my own expense. It means my individual right to speak and write in my mother's tangue is violated by the group right. The pain to me is the translation cost covered by me! So, there must be a balance between individual and group right. One should not cause pain on the other. Is that not?

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t k kidwai

BKW.I am least inclined to agree with the argument you have put forth to substantiate your contention on issue of individual rights and group rights.If you talk to a French in Ethopian,are you voilating his individual right? Or if he tells you that you have to arrange a translator at your own expences,is he yours?Who would arrange and pay depends on who approaches whom and for what.

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JGMitchell

The right of same-sex couples to marry has no effect on anyone other than those who like to complain because it gives them something to complain about. Canada has allowed same-sex couples to marry for years and it hasn't had any effect on the rest of the population. 

And by the way, BelaynehKassaWubie, do you still think that an anal fungus is making people gay in Ethiopia?  I hope since you posted that story you have done some research.

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FaithlessTemplar

Are you suggesting that Churches should be forced to marry homosexual couples? Even if they consider it sinful?

Islam and Christianity both condemn homosexuality, It is unfair to expect them to change the tenets of their religion to please others.

How is it 'liberty' if you cant choose your own belief system?

Of course homosexuals should be allowed marriages, but they should not be able to overule the fundamental beliefs of the religion they are supposedly part of.

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anymoose

a point lost on kidwai who argues that gays must be accepted in every church regardless of that belief system.  

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YankeeJim

US Constitution trumps religion.

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FaithlessTemplar

Why are the rights of homosexuals of any more concern than the right to believe and follow the religion you choose?

Isn't religious freedom important as well?

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YankeeJim

Yes -- live and let live -- religious freedom means you can believe as you wish, however, human rights protection under the Constitution trumps religious freedom as it is a constraining subset. Do what you want inside your clubhouse, but when you come out into the world, the rules may be different.

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anymoose

yes, that was what i was trying to say.  "Do what you want inside your clubhouse".

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FaithlessTemplar

exactly. Nobody is trying to stop gay marriages. Simply refusing to accept them. As is their right.

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Piobar

Kidwai did not state that. The comment was that no Church has binding authority. If a person is not a member of a specific church, that church has no rights over them. If a Catholic went to a Presbiterian church, or a Mosque, or a Sinagogue, and asked for a Catholic wedding, would the Mosque, or church, or temple be obligated, or even able, to accomodate? Certainly no. There are chuches who accept same sex marriage, there are also non-religious options as well. No one is saying an individual church, or a branch of religion must acknowledge, and perform, same sex marriage. They simply do not have the right to stop it from happening elsewhere.

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t k kidwai

@ ANYMOOSE.You know how to twist,change the contours of arguments and put your words in others' mouth.

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YankeeJim

To be clear, and I wasn't when I wrote this, the law cannot show favoritism for marriage over civil partnership.

Religions and their members are free to their beliefs, but in the USA, the law will ensure equality for all and freedom from abuse and discrimination.

Good comments and discussion and that is what I usually try to accomplish with these posts.


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BelaynehKassaWubie

"... do you still think that an anal fungus is making people gay in Ethiopia?" Dear JGMitChell! I did not say anal fungus triggers one to be gay. But a man gets fungus on his anal after a begining sexual intercourse due to the friction created and after that no one stops the gay with a fungus from finding another gay for sexual intercourse to get relief from the pain of the fungus. That is what I said what I usually hear from many people talking about gay!

t k kidwai, yes, I admit that language example I gave it not fit with the topic! 

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philo101

"Legal Marriage" whether gay or straight is an illusion of freedom, when it actually brings religion into the law/state and vice-versa.  It's a violation of the separation of church & state, since marriage is a religious institution.  Only a church should decide who they marry.

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YankeeJim

I have always said, civil partnerships for all, and marriage for some.

Equal rights for all under the law.

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bolhaw

hi

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