Saudi Cleric lectures Muslim young men on how to beat their wives : BEAT HER LIKE A LADY

by Barry ORegan | October 27, 2008 at 08:46 am
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Barry Artiste Op/Ed


Below is a story presented to me by a Muslim friend of mine Tarek Fatah, who knows all too well, Whackjob Clerics who profess Islam as a kind benevolent ideology. Is adored by Wife Beaters everywhere, who says first give your wife a chance to obey, before slapping her around.

But we have all read in the media about honour killings, or impatience by some who just go Berzerk and to the quick, not wanting to bother to discuss options and just "kick the ever living shit" out or their wives, cause it is written somewhere it is okay to do.

Talk Show medium Saudi Cleric Muhammad Al-'Arifi sort of like a cross between "Dr.Phil and Oprah on Acid, with a smattering of The View and Maury Povich" gives what the Saudi Public want, and professes to know what Women Want! A good beatin.

If ever there was a Saudi Redneck, he is one fine example.

One should know, this above statement is an exception to the rule as there more Muslims who treat their wives and daughter with respect and abhor at the thought of violence towards them.

But if Western Society were allowed to showcase such a Ideology on National Television, one can be sure Protests and Human Rights lawsuits would be immediate and swift, but in the middle east, well, let's just say that is another animal. 

Of course, this is on the heels of British Law, which now allows Sharia Law in the British Judicial System, one can be sure British Women will sleep soundly in their beds if their spouse happens to be an avid watcher of Muhammad al-Arifi.

http://www.memritv.org/clip/en/1594.htm

Saudi Cleric lectures Muslim young men on how to beat their wives

BEAT HER LIKE A LADY

From a television program aired last year in Saudi Arabia and Kuwait during which cleric Muhammad al-’Arifi advised young men on how to discipline their wives.

Translated from the Arabic by the Washington-based Middle East Media Research Institute. "Men beat women more often than women beat men.

Allah created women delicate, fragile, supple, and soft because they use their emotions more than they use their bodies.

While a man may use beating to discipline his wife, she sometimes uses her tears to discipline him. For men, women’s emotions may be fiercer than the strike of a sword.

"Before you beat a woman, first admonish her—once, twice, three times, four times, or ten.

If this doesn’t help, you must turn to the teaching “refuse to share their beds.” Thus, a husband distances himself from his wife in bed and in conversation.

If a husband comes to eat a meal and his wife asks him, “How are you? Do you want anything?” he must not answer.

The husband should not sleep with his wife. He should sleep in another room. "If this does not help, then the husband’s third option is to beat his wife lightly so it will not leave a mark.

He must not make her face ugly. Beating in the face is forbidden. Even if you want your camel or donkey to walk faster, you are not allowed to beat it in the face.

If this is true for animals, it is all the more true for humans. If a man is angry with his wife—if he says to her, “Watch out, the child has fallen next to the stove,” and she says, “I’m busy”—then the husband should beat his wife with a toothpick or something like it.

He should not beat her with a bottle of water, a plate, or a knife. Notice how gentle the toothpick used for beating is—this shows you that the purpose is not to inflict pain.

When you beat an animal, you intend to cause it pain so that it will obey you, because a camel would not understand if you said, “Camel, come on, start moving.” A donkey understands nothing but beatings, but to a wife, a light beating conveys, “Woman, you have gone too far.”

"A husband should not beat his wife like he would a child, slapping it right and left. Unfortunately, many husbands beat their wives only when they get angry, and when they start the beating, they use both hands and sometimes their feet, as if they are punching a wall.

Remember, brother, this is forbidden; your wife is a human being.

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djermano
djermano
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at 03:36 on October 28th, 2008

Barry Artiste, I like this story. It's good stuff.

These guys know nothing about being kind hearted and cherish your wife. It is quite dishonorable to beat your wife or children or anyone. All the more need for my Institute ...The International Institute of Nonviolence...Pretty sad story here Barry..Hope the Muslim men will change their behavior.....even when they say beating their wife with a toothpick....they are soundly doing wrong things in life.

Rev. Jermano

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Barry ORegan

Judging by the comments so far, it looks like it is only you and I who agree. Pretty Pathetic.

Thanks for the comments.



Roberto Alvarez-Galloso
Roberto Alvarez-Galloso
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at 10:23 on October 28th, 2008

Barry Artiste, I like this story. It's good stuff.

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Barry ORegan

Thanks Alvarez, I am shocked female Now Public readers are strangely mute and have not commented on this story. 

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djermano

There is too much violence to look at Barry. Why go here? I looked because it is a cultural issue.... When we know US forces murdered innocent kids and woman......somehow wife beating is better than dead... so sadly .

Rev. Jermano

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Randolph Morta

I think muslim men are cowards. They treat their wives like they own them, like they are some sort of property to use and abuse. I know a few muslim guys who beat there wives and the fuckers are proud of what they are doing. I think islam doesnt teach men to beat their wives. This does not come from god, this is a man made rule and it should stop. Stop teating your women like they are slaves and respect then as equals. They have the same amount of rights that we men have. I really think they are disgusting ( Muslim Men ) for thinking that they are doing gods will by beating on their wives. How would they feel if they came home every night and got beat up because they food wasnt ready or there food wasnt warm enough. You guys ( Muslim Men ) should start being loving with your wives and let them feel they are loved and not feel like they are in prison for life.If they say no to sex, NO MEANS FUCKING NO. She doesnt have to give a reason. It's her body, you dont own it.

Let me know what you fuckers think.

Cheers

Randolph Morta.

Cape Town South Africa.

And proud to be a CHRISTIAN.

 

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ADAM HAMADIYA

look at my comment, then look at yours. see the difference. i don't hate against Christians, but you hate against Muslims. if someone down in china or someone with no facts about any religion were to see your comment. what would that make Christians look like. pathetic hay. may Allah lead you the right way.    

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Barry ORegan

Thanks djermano and Randolf, both valid comments, a cruel harsh world we live in, yet many stand by out of fear of being unpolitically correct in commenting on other cultures who ways kill innocents all because some whackjob cleric cannot read a friggin koran the way it was written,.

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ADAM HAMADIYA

i hear people referring to these people as Muslims. well i am one and i can assure you that no ware in the holey quran does it state anything about terrorism nor about brutally beating their wives. NO WARE. and if these people that commit acts of killing or brutally hitting are muslims, then they are going against everything the quran shows, and thus are getting ever so closer to hell in what i believe and (we) muslims believe in. so please judge the person by his actions, not his religion, for the quran is O so piecfull and never said anything about killing.

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Holey = full of holes

did the quran ever say anything about spelling?

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RAIZA BARABANSHCHIKOV

de madre, what a horror

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